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Hi I'm a new cat owner and my kitten won't eat meat when I give it to him as a treat and when he does he spits it out , do you think my cat is sick? What should I do?

Hey there anon! Depending on how old your kitten is depends on weather or not you little baby can keep it down. I recommend that you break it up into tiny pieces and try that. But please try to only feed the little guy kitten food until it's an adult cat. Or if you want to be really sure consult your local vet!-mod strawberry mist

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Blog updates

Hello! I’m sorry for any inconvenience as we try to fix up the theme! 

The ask box is still open for those who would like advice!

- mod dedenne

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Thank you for the tips on the problems with the theme, we will be working on it again so please bear with us. 

-mod Strawberry Mist

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So what do I do about my mom who always looks down on me even though I am almost an adult. I try to talk to her about it and she says im right then when i babysitting a child she says maybe if you didnt hang with kids then you would be treated like one. But that was because i was babysitting iu cant just leave a child there alone.How do i go about this situation? Do i just wait or do I confront her? I would love if everyone responded.

Forewarning you’ll be getting more of a mini answer from all of us. ; v; 

-mod Strawberry Mist

Mod Strawberry Mist: I'd say try and confront her. If you don't get your feelings across then she won't know. Let her know that it's really confusing when you are told you are treated as a child because you are babysitting them. That's really weird and i personally feel she is using that as an excuse for treating you the way she does. Seriously though, sit down and talk to her, but don’t get angry if she does. You’ll only prove you are the child she thinks you are.

Mod Dedenne:I think your mother is so used to taking care of you that when you've finally grown, she refuses to stop. Waiting only hurts more (assuming that your mother may not pick up on hints), so I think it's best that you should confront her about the situation. However, I feel that you should confront her in a mature and calm manner. Otherwise, she'll assume that you're still unable to fully function as an adult and will continue the way she's been treating you.

Mod Power: I belive that you should confront your mom about how you feel but not with anger that always leads to more yelling and when that happens no one is truly listening.remind your mom you are an adult and babysitting dosent make you a child

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Hello! I’m sorry for any inconvenience as we try to fix up the theme! 

The ask box is still open for those who would like advice!

- mod dedenne

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I have a friend who is being super controlling and always has to have their way. It's starting to get to me and another friend. When ever we wanna do something fun it always has to get their way, our ideas don't really truely matter and if we say anything we get the "You are in the wrong" type of thing, got any advice?

Hello! 

Have you ever tried sitting down and just talking to your friend? I feel that if the three of you were to talk it out, you could come to a conclusion, or a compromise! You could tell them what you think is hurting the friendship, and propose a solution to it. Sometimes, hinting to them doesn’t work because not everyone can pick up on hints, so personally, I feel that confronting them and talking with them is most effective.

Usually, friends should agree with everything before carrying things out, so that no one feels out of place, left behind, or uncomfortable. Remember, if you’re not feeling comfortable and you just don’t like how you’re being treated, then you have the option to just stop associating yourself with them completely. (But that’s only as a last resort and they refuse to compromise!)

Good luck!

- mod dedenne

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Hey are you power hungry mod power?

What do you mean lol im not power hungry its just my online name its really the short version my full name is PowerFulStory

-Power

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Mod StrawberryMist, why is your bio written the way it is? I honestly can't believe that you are really that boring.

I am. I literally do nothing all day. I never did afterschool stuff. Pretty much lame here. And to be honest I wrote it that way because I’m literally too lazy to give a crap about my bio. There is nothing to really say about myself anyways. 

-Mod StrawberryMist

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Mod dedenne you seem super nice. By responses to all the stuff with the theme, were you the one who worked on it? It looks great

Ah, hello! And thank you, I can’t be that nice. 

I wouldn’t like to take all of the credit, but I did work on the theme (as Mod Power judged if it was good enough or not and Mod StrawberryMist helped with deciding what seemed appropriate for the blog).

Which does remind me to add a credits page… Thank you!

- mod dedenne

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The theme has been fixed, sorry for any inconvenience. Shouldn’t see any more changes to it again today. 

-Mod StrawberryMist

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Hello! I’m sorry for any inconvenience as we try to fix up the theme! 

The ask box is still open for those who would like advice!

- mod dedenne

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I was pretty specific. If you are gonna blame this on me then you shouldn't be answering things on this blog. Fix your grammar before you even think about giving advice.

Again im completely sorry for the inconvenience and im not blameing you for anything. But i will have yo u know i have edited the post and i hope it answer your qustion correctly and if it doesn’t just be more specific on the qustion you have and want anwered and ill be careful next time i answers questions again im sorry for the inconvenience -Power

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@dedenne: It's alright, I didn't mean to come off as bad as i did. It's just your original theme was really nice and the new ones are really confusing. not many people appeal to two colomned blogs either btw.

Oh no, it’s completely fine! I can understand how stressful it is to try to ask something and have the layout of the blog change every time you refresh the page. Everything becomes misplaced and you have to get a feel around the blog all over again and then having to refresh and the entire layout changes yet again… We’re trying to get a feel on how the blog should look and we’re still editing the layout. 

And it’s okay! You didn’t come off as harsh. I’m just being harsh on myself because I feel that we should have already resolved on how the theme should look before we started accepting asks. You’re completely okay!

- mod dedenne

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Hey i was the one who asked power the question, it was really hard to read and didn't really answer what i was asking.

Um i apologys if i didn’t answer the question how you wanted if you want to you can ask again and be more specific

- Power

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What the hell is going on with your page?!?!?!? every time I look at it it's different.

I’m so sorry about the inconvenience. It’s a matter of what we want the theme to look like.

To be honest, we’re having difficulties deciding how the theme should look. Someone wants two columns on the blog, and another wants it to be the same. Please be patient with us.

- mod dedenne

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How do you feel about sex, being in the LGBT+ community, Power? I'm gay and I'm not sure about anal with my significant other. All that we have been doing are blow jobs and I feel like we should take the next step.

Warning: NSFW!

I believe sex can be a great thing. As long as people have it with safety, a lot of people believe or use to believe because they’re LGBT+, they don’t need protection which is an untrue statement because there is still the possibility of you getting an STD if you don’t.

Regarding you and your significant other, sex should also be a learning experience. Make sure you and also the other person is ready to take the next step and if both of you are you should discuss it, not in the heat of sex but talk to each other about it and as things go down you can learn what he might like during the process 

And here a tip dont just shove “it” go slow cause it might hurt at first also dont go in dry ,use lube it will reduce the pain and make it easyer for both parties also remember to have fun it should be a fun experience not a forced one - Power

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this isnt really an advice question but uhhh.... i was really curious as to why dedenne and strawberry mist chose to stay anon on here and power didnt? i know it is weird since u guys just started but its kinda weird

Strawberry mist: To be honest, personal safety. In the case something happens on here, I don’t want my personal blog or people I know to be affected. If I’m targeted for any reason on here, I want to be safe on my main blog and around people I know. 

Dedenne: It's a matter of personal security. I feel a lot safer under an anonymous name so that people I know in real life don't stalk me here. I know it sounds a little silly, but overall I feel a lot safer.

Power: im not anon because i have noting to hide and everything i say with my advice is my true identity and my opinions are how i feel in real life and also online , i have no reason to hide who i am or what my opinions are .

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Hi, I am gender-queer and thinking about coming out to my family! I'm scared though so do you have any tips? Also, I have a friend who won't use the right pronouns for me. I only came out recently to some of my friends so i could use help with that too

Hey there anon! 

The way going about telling your fam-damly depends on who they are as a person. You should be very careful when going about it. If your family is super accepting and tells you that no matter what they will love you, i think you should just be completely honest. It’s normal to be scared, especially if your family is the latter end. Maybe, if you are too afraid, tell them over the phone, so they can’t harm you if they are that type of person. If you do tell them please let us know how it goes! 

In terms of your friends not using the correct pronouns or name you prefer, I feel you. I came out recently to a bunch of friends and none of them like to use the ones I prefer. All i can tell you is to keep reminding them. Be nice about it though, because they could just be so used to calling you one thing that it’s hard to call you something else. Just give it time and I’m sure it’ll work its self out. 

-Mod Strawberry Mist