Constellation No. 45
"Hortense was the wife and Valérie was the mistress. Many men wish to own these two editions of the same book, even though an inability to make one's wife one's mistress is a colossal proof of inferiority in a man. Variety in this area is a symptom of impotence. Fidelity will always be the tutelary genius of love, a sign of colossal power, the power that makes a man a poet! A man must contrive to possess all women in his own wife, as the wretched poets of the seventeenth century made Irises and Chloes out of their Manons!"
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Let me right the wrongs I have done to you, for I see how strongly attached you are to your husband despite his conduct, because you have come here!...Why, this poor man! He loves the ladies...Well then! You see, if you had had a bit of our oomph, you could have kept him from chasing skirts, for you would have been what we know how to be, all women in the world for a man. The government should create a gymnastics academy for virtuous women!
Honoré de Balzac, Cousine Bette [translated by shirtysleeves] (1846).
Chaka Khan, "I'm Every Woman" (1978)
I have the feeling that I and everybody else are [in some way] related to everybody. That there’s even a [Hans] Filbinger inside me and inside everybody else. That the Good Lord is also in each of us and so is the girl next door and pretty much every other living person. Each of us could identify with all of them. That is the question: to what extent are we stifled and dominated by all these millions and billions of possibilities of people that we carry within us?
Thomas Bernhard interviewed in 1980 (http://shirtysleeves.blogspot.com/2014/03/a-translation-of-ich-konnte-auf-dem.html).
Sweet Baby, "Loving Every Girl in the World" (1988)
If the war as a whole had no objective meaning, then invariably all human history was telescoped into each man's experience; every person was the sum total of history. Rather than being a social experience, a matter of documentable reality, history was individual nightmare, or even, as the Dadaists insisted, madness. One is again reminded of Nietzsche's statement, on the very edge of his complete mental collapse, that he was "every name in history."
Modris Eksteins, Rites of Spring: The Great War and the Birth of the Modern Age (1989), p. 293.










