we talked about it yesterday, i know, but now i have my thoughts in order: i feel like the "attraction to nonbinary people" thing is kind of fetishizing and creepy? idk, it just rubs me very much the wrong way - we are not a monolith, and pretending we are erases so many varied experiences in a way that i really hate
yeah, fetishizing i think is a good word for it. it sounds very narrowing of an extremely varied experience











