I think the main thing that I love about monster lovers is that they do such a good job of feeling naturally dominant but still nurturing because of "instinct". Does that make sense? It's something I strongly desire in a man, but all I seem to find are Chads or christian grey mfeers.
Yesss, anon you make perfect sense. I see you. I honestly feel like that’s a big allure to monsters in general too! Like monsters know how to be rough and dominant with their partners, but they know when enough is enough, they know when to be gentle and cherishing because of that instinct to protect their mates. Monsters actually know that there’s a necessary balance between rough and gentle and even when they lose themselves and get every rough, it’s always followed up by equally measured gentleness.
I also think another factor is that monsters typically view humans as something precious and even if they don’t initially I think they usually end up doing so in the end, depends on the piece of literature lol. But if anything they at least view mates as precious where a lot of people don’t as much anymore. Making monsters all the more appealing
