9, 17, 18, 22, 29, 41, 52! Here's the spam, as promised 💖
9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
I think communication as well as shared interests and goals. I think one should be super comfortable with your partner and are always on the same page!
17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
Of course! At least I hope it’s true! I want to believe. I think it takes work but I don’t see why it can’t happen!
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Lying, cheating, sins of omission and immovable obstacles.
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
I think people should be careful about dating friends but I don’t think they just shouldn’t. I think they both should be darn sure before moving forwards because it can ruin a friendship and a friend circle, however…if you’ve considered that and understand the risks (can prepare for them as best one can), than I don’t see why not.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
IRL it would have to be their clothes just because I don’t tend to look people in the eye/face IRL. So like ratty t-shirts can be some of the first things I see on a guy. I eventually then look at his face but by then I bet I’ve learned about his personality and then that’s what decides if he’s worth anymore conversation. So clothes first impression, then personality, then face.
Online it would be their way of phrasing things and how they react to other people. Do they jump to the worst case? Do they give people the benefit of the doubt? Are they aggressive speakers? Are they reserved and unsure?
41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?
Probably a trip to the city to look at cool shops? I love window shopping, thrifting and antiquing. Then picking up some take-away and going back to my/their house to watch a movie or a TV series (maybe the movie theatre but I do actually prefer watching movies/TV at home). [This example assumes not a first date]
52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?
I’m alight? I mean the little advice I’ve given here and there seems to have worked out? I think I have Emma syndrome where I’m good at seeing ways to help other’s but not myself? I don’t want to claim to be good at all but I’m not bad and I tend to stay level headed so people seem to like that.
