#moveon!

[enjay09]

Hii guys update ko lng ung buhay ko dito .. Tutal wala namang nakikinig sakin e 😂💔 so ayon sembreak namin kaya alaws arep, alaws gala 😭 kaya dito ako ngayon sa bahay at babad sa computer League of legends everyday everynight OHH GAWD!! Sobrang bored hayp na .. 😢😅 tpos hirap pa mag move on .. TRA BIGTI ?

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.. sa SINULID 😂

[yeldeynaa]

MOVING ON

Moving on. Hmmm. How will I start on explaining this? Moving on isn’t easy. We think it is, but no. After a few months of breakup, we might say “YAY I’VE MOVED ON!” But we all know, in ourselves that you’re still not okay with it. Hahahaha I know right? Stupid.  People would say, “Why aren’t you still over him?” or “Move on already! Nothing good will come out of it. You will only look stupid.” Which is true actually. How can you move on if you’re still holding on? Still thinking that you two still might have a chance. That’s not how moving on works. If you ask me, I would use this following steps on moving on because it totally helped me. :)

STEP 1| Anger

            I know this is silly but it will totally be a big help for you. Anger, think of all the negative things that he did to you before. Start with small things like, he doesn’t text back fast, he always says he’s busy, etc. And then think of all the jerkiest things he did. 

STEP 2| CRY HAAARRDD

            Okay you may cry. Cry it all out but never spend your whole life crying. He’s not the only guy in the world! There’s a lot more, you’re still young! So keep continuing life. Life goes on. “Cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.” Okay?

STEP 3| MEET AND GREET

            You socialize with people. You may close your door for a moment, but never put on a “forever chain” on your door. If you’re ready, go and socialize!! :)

STEP 4| BE BUSY

            Keep yourself busy. Any kind of busy will do. Hahahaha Just DON’T give yourself time to think about him because if you do, go back to step 1. It’s your freaking choice if you want to move on or not. If you want to look stupid and repeat this four steps all the time, then go ahead.  Goodbye.

[shaniaarwinda]

Mau sampe kapan kamu mikirin hal itu terus? Kapan kamu move on?

[mypsycholifetime-blog]

Anti-Klimaks.

Hubungan Aku dan Kamu itu bagaikan fase antiklimaks dalam sebuah alur cerita. Kamu tahu kenapa?

Karena akhir-akhir ini kamu selalu berhasil membuatku luluh setelah kamu melakukan beribu-ribu strategi andalanmu untuk mendapatkan perhatianku sejak setahun yang lalu. Namun kemudian, ketika aku mulai memberikan perhatianku padamu beberapa hari terakhir ini, kamu seperti tak membutuhkannya lagi. Dengan beribu-ribu alasan andalanmu pula, kamu menyudahi segalanya, mungkin tanpa perasaan bersalah (?).

"Ada apa sebenarnya?" Mungkin hanya pertanyaan ini yang terlintas di kepala. Apa mungkin ini semacam balas dendammu kepadaku, karena dari dulu aku tak pernah mau menganggapmu? Sekarang semua seperti berbalik arah menyerangku. Tapi aku begitu bukan tanpa alasan. Ada benteng sangat tebal yang memisahkan kita, ya Aku dan Kamu. Aku tak mungkin beregois diri memaksamu untuk berhijrah dan aku pun tak mungkin mau kau ajak berhijrah pula.

Dengan benteng setebal itu, bukankah kelanjutan hubungan kita hanya akan menjadi bagian anti-klimaks dalam sebuah cerita kehidupan?

Jatiwaringin, 10 September 2014.

Aku,

yang sedang berusaha realistis.

[chinitangmommy]

Maybe it's not always about trying to fix something broken. Maybe it's about starting over and creating something better.

Move on. Mahirap man sa umpisa pero, one day magigising ka na okay na ang lahat. 1-2 days na umiiyak okay na yun. Pero pang 3rd day? Self inflicted pain na yan.

[terrensio]

hindi ako makakausad kung palagi akong bumabalik sayo.