#mps chatting

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the anti-endo stance is one of the most chronically online takes in this community. because why am i seeing so many post that have nothing to do with plurality being tagged anti-endo? or the fact that so many kin blogs will take an anti-endo stance. i legit no joke saw one say they openly support paraphilia but nontraumagentic systems is where they draw the validity? cmon man.

the human brain is capable of genuinely impressive and relatively considered impossible things and achieves these on a regular basis. i heard they found someone who's been functioning on half a brain and they previously thought that wasnt possible at all. you, average person on the internet, could not know if someone is being disingenuous unless they just outright told you.

but isolating endo systems and pro-endos as if they are somehow a lesser person is uh...well. its familiar. and thats shitty and bad and perpetuating an age old cycle. any minority could relate.

like get some compassion i guess. i dont know how else to tell you to care about human experience

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inspired by a conversation i had with a week-old new split this morning

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Your latest makes me think of how a lot of the irl magical hero, irl chuunibyou, and irl demigod communities on Tumblr are anti-endo. Like... you believe you're literally living Percy Jackson and going to end up in Camp Halfblood... or you believe you can astral project and magical girl transform and fight evil... or you believe you are a million year old demon with blood related magic in a relatively human-ish form... but someone being plural without a disorder is where you draw the line of what's really possible? And I say this as someone who really likes these communities and wants to be in them! I adore these communities! But I can't be openly myself in them or join the main Discord servers for them because they are resoundingly anti-endo and do not welcome any endos into their more closed spaces at all! It sucks!

I just don't grasp how one can believe in such fantastical things (as someone who likes to push the boundaries of what is possible metaphysically/spiritually)... and also be anti-endo.

(I specifically tried to make up a fake example of an irl chuunibyou because I don't want to accidentally target anybody specific. If someone out there exists that fits the more specific examples, I am not talking about them!)

you bring up a really good point! i 100% agree. being that im part of the kin community myself, i find it more than bizarre how common it is to *lack* acceptance. we dont even get any official research for this practice. i got quite literally kicked out of a home and put back in my abusive household because i kin. i wish i was making that up.

and the point of me saying that is because kinning is a pretty unbelievable thing. if you can believe and practice in that, you can spare some thought for endogentic systems. wnd whats twice the salt in the wound is many, many of these kin blogs are also DID havers. like the community collectively needs to be nicer imo

side thought; i know some people use kin to mean "i relate to this character a lot" but in this instance, im speaking specifically about (what i know to be the original definition) the reincarnation and character-in-the-flesh kinning.

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whats worse than being a kin in a DID system? being a kin with DID in a DID system

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i really want to cut our hair but i dont have the money now skill to get what i envision

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my therapist asked me what my origins were so i had a blast explaining jeff the killer lore

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ive been telling literally EVERYONE ive been at this job for a whole single year and i got a facebook memory today where i posted my interview outfit.

dated for today. in 2024.

listen i know i split last year but how did i not REALIZE when i did my taxes

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fusions aren't necessarily predictable; you never truly know what combo of identity is gonna pop out.

temporarily fusing with lias is always a 50/50 of ended up younger than where we started.

THANKFULLY vox and lias just make a younger vox. which is great because i dont feel like being a child right now