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do you know of any like cdd tags that arent filled with anti endos. like any inclusive cdd tags. like i just want to talk about my disorder without it being filled with people hating and fakeclaiming and overall negative
Nonnie: unfortunately, I am unaware of any CDD tags not filled with antis hating. The best thing to do is block the different anti tags and hope for the best none of their hate goes untagged.
anyone else get annoyed when sysmeds who are anti endo to the point of outright denying that systems who identify as endogenic are systems (aka fakeclaimers) call themselves plural and not DID system or something because it makes it harder to tell if they support endo systems or not when "plural" is used more commonly in endogenic friendly spaces that don't medicalize everything extremely
-painter 🎨 (they/beep)
Someone asks the community with the memory disorder if they remember when something happened ages ago with no other context...
Ah yes, surely they will remember this incident and if they don't they are at fault and obviously lying about not remembering and that proves they are are awful people...
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Like, listen, I know not everyone here has amnesia or memory issues, but a LOT of people here are going to and sometimes a vague post is NOT going to produce any actual worthwhile reactions beyond confusion and irritation at being accused of something they do not remember.
Syscourse space: A proposed Project
Hello all, I hope that everyone can excuse this intrusion of cross tagging to help me execute or plan a small project I've been thinking of.
Back in the late 2010s discord had a niche discourse community. Servers were built open to people across stances with the expectation of civil discourse as well as a base community. These places had their problems, trust me, I personally handled many of them myself, but they also created a lot of helpful dialogue with the topics popular at the time (then; trans discourse or dysphoria discourse to be specific)
My plan falters when I think about how the discourse community has changed, while I don't know for certain if it's truly gotten more volatile people are much more comfortable being assholes to one another's faces. So I need mods... Like... A lot of them. And I need them from all across the aisle, pro, anti, neu, complicated and anything else that exists. Id also really appreciate people with server building experience because while I've been a mod and owner of multiple servers over the past almost ten years... I'm not good at it.
If any of these apply to you, and you're over the age of 18, please message me! I want to make something good, and I need help to do so.
Thank you all for reading and I hope everyone has a good day
Yes I know this has probably already been done, yes I know there will be issue.
How do you know that name wasnt cute until they formed a black alter? You dont. You dont know them.
The comment I originally made for context:
Well listen: if you have a Black alter and their name is a traditionally Black name that have been mocked for so long for being ‘out there’ and ‘too Black’ and ‘too ghetto’ and you use Black names for them I’m going to side eye the fuck out of your system and that alter. I don’t give two fucks. Latisha wasn’t cute to you until you formed a Black alter, now suddenly you want that? It’s appropriation actually.
Way to straw man the heck out of what I’m saying but I’ll humor you, okay? You can appreciate a culture. You can appreciate Blackness. You can love Black culture, you can have alters that objectively are a blueprint of Black people. However, you are not Black. You will never understand what it’s like to live with a traditionally Black name, or have to put ‘African American’ on former sheets and be automatically judged. Similarly, your “Black” alter will never experience the same scrutiny. Ever.
As such you shouldn’t go by any Black name as a non-Black system, because you don’t know what it’s like to be Black. You don’t know what it’s like to have an ethnic name, nor the discrimination that comes from it. You have to remember, this is not a decision that exists in a vacuum. It’s like when a Black person does something or says something and white people catch on and appropriate the slang, start suddenly “allowing” certain music is be “liked and mainstream” etc… it’s appropriation of names that have historically been looked down on and seen as ghetto, low class and uncivilized.
So I don’t care how much you love or hate the culture. You’re not part of the culture, so don’t appropriate the culture. And it’s not really your, presumably non-Black person, say on what does and doesn’t count as cultural appropriation vs appreciation, but the Black system community.
TLDR: don’t be racist, and fuck off if you hear a whole explanation and still wanna cry about it
We support all people with CDDs! UNLESS YOUR AN ENDO SUPPORTER!!!
okay, but that's not supporting all people with CDDs then now is it?
Your supporting people as long as they have the same bigoted beliefs as you. At the end of the day, anti endos are based, and built off of hate. Just because you find yourself being supported by other bigots now does not mean you are safe. Once you differ from them enough you will also be on the same chopping block as the "endo supporting fakers" you are so bigoted against.
Nonnie
This is going to be a take that a few anti endos won’t agree with, but we as anti endos shouldn’t be excluding pro endo cdd systems from the general cdd spaces, in the same way pro endos shouldn’t be excluding anti endos from resources that could be useful to pwcdds (like pluralkit, for example). Barring anybody from a disorder space or resource for an opinion is stupid, especially with how isolating cdds can be. Excluding pro endo pwcdds from cdd spaces only pushes them further into the endogenic sphere of things, which isn’t helpful for ANY of us. Now, I’m not saying anti endo specific spaces and tags should allow pro endo cdd systems, just that we shouldn’t run them out of cdd tags.
okay bye #myramble
