A woman asked me "Where have the good men gone?" So I replied...
RANT: What has happened to the good men?
They’re busy working on/at a specific cause or developing a craft in order to try and make some real money or have given up on dating
because women in Los Angeles think what happens in music videos and on television shows is “real life” and that it’s the fault of normal men for not being ballers.
Like it’s our fault the government refuses to install a quality livable wage that people can actually survive and even thrive on.
I used to hear stories from my mom’s friends like “I put myself through school working at…” a bar/golf course *Insert job that most starving artists now have*
You can’t even pay your rent while having roommates with a job like that let alone pay bills and have money left over to even date someone in a city like Los Angeles.
A good/decent date is a MINIMUM $150-$300 and that’s just doing basic S**t like getting a decent meal and attending a show/activity plus having to purchase drinks/snacks pay for parking at said activity.
So unless you’re a male model or have the lip game of Filmore Slim You gotta do that 3-5 more times JUST to get in heavy rotation and get the women your after to even consider dropping other guys competing for her attention…
Then you REEEEEALLY have to start spending the BIG BUCKS!! Trips, to places you don’t wanna go to because you’re fine with staying local and finding something fun to do with friends
BUT NOOOOOOOooooo she has to go on a trip JUST TO TAKE A PHOTO on that trip to SHOW/Throw it in her friends faces on social media (just to make her frenemies angry) and 9 times outta 10 YOU WILL NOT BE ALLOWED IN SAID PHOTO!!!
Even though you paid for the ENTIRE TRIP and put up with all her B. S. en route to the vacation spot you hit. (Because let’s face it, a lot of women DON’T TRAVEL WELL) Dudes, we’re easy, a few pairs of jeans and clean shirts and a neck pillow and we’re GOOD!!
If you are allowed in the vacation photo you’ll more then likely be cropped out of it because she doesn’t want to let the last few dudes in her rotation know that she might be cutting them from her starting five… All Due to her ego and let’s face it need for attention and always thinking something better is coming around the corner. Basically not living in reality and composing her lifestyle to copy what she sees on social media
Also EVERY WOMAN has at LEAST 3 dudes trying to get at her… (Married or single ot doesn’t matter if you looked you’d find EXACTLY that) FYI: ESPECIALLY if she’s an “LA 6” or higher (an LA 6 Is a Beyoncé WORLD-WIDE)
Most of the time it’s 5-7 but there’s ALWAYS that main 3 (the daily hard workers) in her in-box/texts/ (I learned that math from YEARS of promoting clubs and DJing) every girl you put on the list subconsciously brings 3 dudes to the spot (not with them but because of them) sometimes those dudes STILL show up even when she doesn’t because they want to have something to talk about when said female reaches back out to them later that week!
The invention of social media just made everyone more envious of other people for the wrong reasons. Also society (imho) has forced a mindset that makes women super insecure and they need to fill that void with “likes” and extra attention.
Most people that have dope lives don’t advertise it (unless they’re famous and they have to) Everyone wants to be “famous” so they advertise…
These bottle waitresses aka “models” on social media don’t post scantly clad photos of themselves for the sake of “art” it’s an advertisement to the few lucky douchebags that have a few extra bucks to gain favor and entrap them into thier web in hopes of a better life.
Men with nice things are just as bad but it’s because women like nice things. As Dave Chappelle once said “if I could F**K a beautiful woman on a cardboard box I wouldn’t buy a house” it’s bait…
If everyone just fought for a living wage that could really make a difference then most of the problems in this country would dissolve. It would just be a few idiot rich kids with mediocre childhoods and small penisis trying to pop shit.
Too many distractions and people thinking they’re superstars because 30 people liked a photo on social media and everyone being broke is the issue.
That’s why they’re always screaming “bring back the 50s” everyone had a job, a house 2 cars and a dog…
White folks in the flyover states no longer have this so they blame people of color/gays/artists instead of the corporations that pay the nimrods that they voted into office to keep them broke uninformed and fighting amongst each other because they see something that another person has that they don’t and they don’t think that person is worthy of having that item…
I’m guilty of that all the time, I’ve seen many people fail upwards and it made me angry and then I realized what matters…
I wanna be healthy, have a great circle of friends and want to be able to have some fun… Not popping bottle private jet fun but more of a “I can travel on a plane day of due to an emergency/great opportunity and pay my bills and live in a safe neighborhood and keep up with the new gadgets and eat out twice a week and attend something super fun every week and not have to look at my bank account and cringe…
In closing, a livable wage for all and people putting aside their egos a bit and just being a little bit nicer to each other would make everyone better people.
But it won’t happen until we have a drastic regime change because the example being set at the moment monkey wrenches any real future for adult relationships…