Hey hey Ms Void,
Back with the classics, my genius partner has decided to start going outside to sleep as a protest of the sound from the tv
He also gets mad at me for wanting to lock the door so I can feel safe in my neighborhood with increasing crime rates because then im locking him outside
Keep in mind, nobody makes him go outside, i turn it down when he asks (even though I have hearing issues and if I want to take my glasses off to sleep I need it loud enough to hear), its even try to pick specific shows that won't bother him even if it means I cant watch my comfort shows
Now you may he thinking 'well you share a house, maybe you should be more respectful' but you are incorrect
I live in a shed that was designed for a single person to just barely survive in while completed uni (me that person is me) and he moved in unexpectedly at the start of the year quoting he'd only be here until he found a new place
I have done everything possible to make things comfortable for him yet i think he's forgotten he is living in my house and never even bothered to have the conversation of "hey can I live with you long term?" Let alone the "should we live together" talk (we have been dating 5+yrs but im very specific about how I live-- actually! Break ()
If i get called OCD one more fucking time for wanting to live in the specially crafted ways I figured out so that I stood a chance at existing like a normal human I am going to throw a fucking chair through a fucking window
All good bro- just disrupt my environment, routine, and ability to operate and then mock me by telling me it sounds OCD to not want to do dishes if they weren't stacked on the fucking bench cause idk maybe I hate dishes and dont like extra steps and if its neat and the sink is empty when I go to do dishes then im not going to resent and put it off until its a problem
Uggggghhhhhhh
I get that im specific about some things but fuckssake bro if I was OCD there is no way in hell I could have survived almost a year in the type of environment this has descended into (madness, chaos, and things are different everytime I wake up to how I went to sleep)
Oh and back to the original topic in case anyone (all 0 people who will read this) is wondering if have fucked up nightmares when I sleep and if i have the TV going it increases the chance of me having a harmless TV orientated dream and gives my subconscious like an anchor to the real world when things start to get too fucked up in my nightmares. And yes. They are incredibly fucked up. I would not wish them on my worse enemy fucked up. When I figured out I could use the TV as like a lifeline to escape them I started sleeping with the TV on Every. Single. Night. That was almost a decade ago.
The TV gets turned off now when I fall asleep 🙃
I haven't felt well rested in months. Also the carry over effect of the nightmares has made me feel constantly hunted/in-danger/scared-of-leaving-the-house which has not been having a great effect on my interactions with people and trying to survive in modern society
Anyway, im just waffling now, which yes, is the point of this public journal esque stream of consciousness scream into the void type blog thing I got going on her but whatever im struggling to stay associated with my human form so im outski
Thanks Ms Void, until next time (he's being a shit atm do it'll probably be soon)