Sep 20, 2023
im a genderfluid girl whose aroace-spec and likes men (only nonconforming ones) but i think i also like girls??? i like how they look and stuff but i cant see myself having a relationship with one, is there a label for that?
it seems you're describing multiple forms of attraction. you like aesthetically and affectionally girls/women, but not amorously. while you also like affectionally GNC men/boys (and probably also aesthetically, right?)
some possible nonspecific labels to look at: variangled/periangled, angled aroace, GNC-, indivi-, finma-, multiaesthetic. they don't fit specifically your experience, I also can't tell exactly what you feel. I hope they help you how to find yourself.