so as a genderqueer nonbinary writer who likes genderqueer nonbinary sex, i think smut has been woefully hampered by all the sexy words for a clitorophallus being gendered as fuck
we have clit for girls! we have cock and dick for guys! hell, the Transgender Versions of these are even more gendered! there's T-dick for transmascs! girlcock and girldick for transfems! it's very binary! and as someone who is neither a guy nor a girl, being misgendered is not sexy to me!
so im taking matters into my own hands and making up my own word about it :V im currently vibing with "jack" as my sexy smut slang for the part between your legs that swells up and feels good to touch during sex, because
it fits in my mouth like the other words - it's one syllable with a hard consonant at the end, so it's short and easy and snappy to say, but it has a different vowel in the middle so it's hard to confuse for clit or cock or dick
it's already a word in sexual slang (jacking off), it fits in context
jackass is already an insult like dickwad or cunt, might as well hornify it retroactively
i want to ruin jack as a name the way dick has been ruined as a name