"I wish could penetrate but I don't have a penis" There's a surgery for that (and silicone exists)
"I want to piss standing up" The surgery does that too, but also have you heard of an STP device? You should look into those
I need people to actually understand that not everyone's dysphoria can be managed*. Prosthetic penises do not provide the same satisfaction for everyone. Sometimes it makes it worse. Sometimes they're uncomfortable, unaffordable, or unattainable in general (minors, no shipping address, no shops to ship, anti obscene material laws).
I need people to understand that your solution isn't everyone's. I'm getting so sick and tired of "there's a surgery for that" I'm poor and smoke. "There's straps tech for that" they don't fit me. They hurt. I get nothing from them except often feeling worse. I had to spend hundreds of dollars to make my own and it still doesn't really work. "Fingers exist" circle back to me when my physical and sensory disabilities disappear 👍
Not all penile creation surgeries are designed with the ability to piss standing up in mind, and even if it's designed as such, urethral lengthening can fail, which is an unfortunately common problem w v-preserving penile creations, and sometimes it's still not enough for daily use (cannot pull through fly and have to pull pants down past ass, for example). For prosthetics, having to deal with them can remind them of what they need assistance with. I can technically piss standing up due to my variation, but it doesn't go well in the practicality department (can only do it in the shower bc otherwise piss on pants), and I know of many who, due to the positioning, we struggle with STPs. MANY people struggle with them or don't like them in general for many different reasons.
Someone can have prosthetics and it's not enough, and they don't have access to surgery. Sometimes surgery just isn't enough to get those precise dysphoric feelings, such as feelings it get hard when aroused (phallo concerns), penetrating (meta concerns, it can permit it but it's not as common as with phallo), loose skinned balls.. hell I have a specific dysphoria about how neither the body I have or could get through surgery would allow me to get a guiche piercing
This isn't doomer no point in transitioning, this is tired of forced and toxic positivity. People are allowed to be upset that their body doesn't function how they want in the way they want it. People are allowed to be upset they don't get to do what they want with their body
*this isn't even touching on species and xeno dysphoria
