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[fatterbiggersofter]

Imagine a woman in thi dress that just comes in two halves, because the sides are "corseted" — black lace, silver rings. It's meant to have windows of skin. She's in full glam, as beautiful as ever, eating.

It's a sequence over time.

A little bloating as she eats turns into a curvy tummy, turns into a belly, turns into a gut. Her boobs are growing, her ass and hips and softening, her thighs are widening. Whenever a hand is freed from eating it gravitates towards her gut, manicured, dimpled hand rubbing in to relieve some pressure.

The windows of flesh between those laces grow, spill, until it goes from suggestive to wholeheartedly lewd. The lace is used more and more until it can no longer be tied at the hem. The rings at the bottom where the lace normally goes through is forgone to keep the lace relevant and the dress done up. The knot of the lace gets higher and higher the more weight she puts on until one day it can't be used at all on the final town under her arms.

The dress is bend together by the straps over her shoulders. It covers nothing. But she's still wearing it, right? Her hips are stuck under the arms of her chair. She's waiting for it to crack or break but the food keeps coming. She's full but hungry, hungry but full. Her makeup is smeared from all the eating.

But doesn't she look beautiful in her dress?

This is really neat, anon! Sorry it sat in my inbox for so long. I love how the construction of the dress itself lends to fitting at multiple sizes, you've got me thinking about using more clothing descriptions as I'm writing!

[fatterbiggersofter]

What are some of your favorite and most inspirational WG writers/stories?

I've been in a bit of a writing funk this week, but it was fun to put this together! Thanks for the ask!

TheSpookyEnd on DA writes some of my favorite one-shots, they really know how to pace larger weight gains within a singly story and I think I revisit their stories the most. I'd recommend The NEET Trap, Alien Hospitality, and Moving Out.

On tumblr, I'll shout out:

@the-2nd-one who is consistently making me think about some of the classic tropes in new ways. In particular their fixing the population crisis through fattening men snippets/AU sticks with me.

@wafflekink has great premises and blends in flavors of feedism-adjacent kinks really well. Clueless is brilliantly-written wg denial.

@laaauraeve is a pal and writes some of the best-described scenes, this one about a fat husband is a great example.

I've been drawing a lot more inspirations from talking with folks on here more than reading other longerform feedist fics lately? I'm especially partial to text posts where gainers are writing their own fantasies or experiences, those are really what I find myself revisiting a lot!

[fatterbiggersofter]

I would give it all for a continuation of your story about fat pet play with Chunk—I have reread it so many times. Tysm for sharing it 💞

awww thanks Anon! I do have a couple of ideas in my brainstorm doc about revisiting Chunk/fat pet play, so you may get your wish sometime down the line! Glad you're enjoying that one so much, it was something new and different for me to write :)

[fatterbiggersofter]

Also out of curiosity is there a term for a Feedism role reversal? Like an actual term? It's been plaguing me ever since I wrote about the two friends where one lost weight and fed the other vicariously so he gained what the other lost and I just– I don't– Augh! It's such a fun concept and if there isn’t an actual term for it then there should be.

Weight swap? Role reversal? Weight switch? Reversed weight? Idk man.

So I don't know at all who put this site together, but there's a huge list of feedism tropes here:

https://wgtropes.miraheze.org/wiki/Category:Tropes

I don't love a lot of the exact terms they choose, but I find the taxonomy helpful when trying to differentiate the core of one story from another.

They might classify what you're talking about as a Yin-Yang Diet, or the Feeder-Feedee Flip more generally. Maybe with a hint of Splash Damage to get the unintentional bit?

People on reddit talk about the "feeder to feedee pipeline", but I like having some terminology to throw around. Curious if you'd pick a different one, let me know!

[fatterbiggersofter]

Feedee who's not necessarily in denial about their weight, but rather the vastness of their appetite to the point of forgetting how normal or "fit" people eat.

They see how little of a portion their feeder/partner eats. They expected one bowl, sure, but... that's a tiny amount, surely?

They ask them if everything's okay. They couldn't imagine ever eating a portion that small and being satisfied.

"You know you're gorgeous, right? You don't need to starve yourself just for contrast or whatever. I love you for you. You should eat properly."

And their feeder/partner looks down at their own plate, which is actually a little fuller than normal and goes, "Huh?"

"That portion. It's tiny. Are you okay? You not feeling well or something?"

"Baby, this is a big portion."

"No it's not."

"Yes it... wait a minute. You don't know what a normal portion size is anymore, do you? You're so far gone, you can't imagine eating this much. Oh my god."

(Etc)

Like idk if it's enough for an actual text post but it's a scenario I play around with in my head a bit lol. What do you think?

I love this coming from a perspective of care and worry from the fatter partner. Not teasing their thin partner about barely eating because they take so much of the shared meals, but their focus literally so zeroed in on their own food, their own portions, and how even these huge helpings barely leave them sated that seeing the pitiful size of a normal serving has them wondering how literally anyone could manage on such little food.

The fatter partner eating all the time and slowly realizing they're rarely so completely full to self-describe as 'not hungry'. The amount of time they spend thinking about food, waiting for their next really filling meal expanding as they grow. While their partner's portions and diet remains pretty constant.

I think focusing on the moment of realization like that is fun. The feedee realizing that they've been given essentially a serving platter compared to the miniscule size of a normal plate. Maybe the feeder likes the contrast, or maybe it's just the natural progression of things as the feedee takes up more of the bed, and the couch, and the table with their meals.

Fun scene!

[fatterbiggersofter]

I know you normally write about male gains so maybe this isn't up your street but imagine a celebrity who's considered a sex icon. Her fanbase is primarily men crushing / thirsting over her, she drives them crazy.

Her nudes leak for whatever reason, as is a big problem irl with female celebrities. She takes an absence from the spotlight, she says, to focus on "herself".

Word gets out to only her die-hard fans that she's now doing adult movies.

Imagine a guy, a fan of hers, tuning in obsessively. He keeps up to date but... she's putting on a bit of weight. He figures now that she's not in the spotlight anymore she doesn't need to worry as much. Maybe the leaked nudes stressed her out.

It's definitely her. Not an impersonator. She keeps gaining weight.

She makes an appearance in articles again because of paparazzi but it's just a scandal of her noticeable gain. That confirms it for him that it is her.

She keeps gaining.

To him, her beauty doesn't wane, which scares him. Her breasts and hips get bigger, her thighs widen, her fingers and feet chub up, her belly starts to pool. Most of the time, she's spilling out of the outfits the porn directors have appointed her. Her roles change from the girl next door to the apartment next door to the role of a MILF. It's a gradual change. The mom jeans, 90s-ish updo, and copious cleavage in overtaxed leopard print still leaves him breathless. In that one, something new happens though that he doesn't pay much mind to at the time:

She presses the guy's hand to her naked stomach as she's riding him and says, "It's tough being a mom. Look how big they made me."

A day or two later he checks her online. No kids. He understands it's just for the plot, that it wouldn't have been real, but he had to check. Why put attention on how big she is? The title does say "Fat Curvy MILF"... Hm.

That isn't her biggest. She keeps going. Going. Going. She goes from "curvy" to just fat. She's still curvy in a way, but it's not what you'd think when you see her.

She reaches the point of barely walking in her movies. Her arms are thick and jigging, her chest is massive, her belly too. She's pink-cheeked and panting like she's having sex even before the event happens. Every step to this point that he's witness he's been no less attracted to.

If anything, he's harder than he's ever been. He can't get off without thinking of her. He wants to feed her. He wants to feel her all over. Feel the softness of her fat in a discovering way, he's never felt anyone like her before.

The guy in the porn (different guys – sure – but the guy of the hour) becomes a feeder. He can barely breathe as he watches it. He's hand feeding her cake and she's moaning like it's pleasuring her.

He can pretend the guy is him.

Thoughts?

This is neat! You're really good at making me think about new slants on some of the more common dynamics/tropes. I like the unintentional slide into the FA/feeder role, it's so often the gaining/feedee person who can't help themselves from sinking further and further into the kink. I can totally see a guy going from mystified by her change to gripping tighter and tighter to his crush on her as she changes and subsumes everything about herself physically that used to be attractive to him and core to her persona.

Can't emphasize enough how brilliant that is to have the "decline" be into fat attraction in general. It makes sense; it's taboo, it's confusing for him, he slowly admits he's not just gawking at her change, he's relishing watching her get bigger and thinking it's weird, but he won't be so rapt by her if she gets any "worse". But he's wrong, and every subsequent time he sees her, she's fatter and he's still into her. I especially love the detail about him reading something sexual into her baseline panting once she's getting to that size, really nailed that type of subconscious eroticism developing for him. Great idea as always!

Also re:me normally writing about male gains...

So funny because I read that bit of your ask and I was like... huh, no I don't? So I went back to my 2026 stories directory post and it's entirely BHM/BHM/SSBHM or POV/genderless stuff written this year and I'm just like huh. I absolutely did not clock that I'm in such a Big Guy era at the moment lol, but I love writing about anyone getting fatter of any gender :)

I think 1) my perception is that there's a lot less male gaining writing out there and I did at some point I did intentionally try to lean into writing more about guys gaining to explore new premises, 2) I often have Complicated Feelings about being a guy in this online space and I may be overcompensating out of concern that what I write could in even the smallest way contribute to/mirror some of the behaviors/dynamics that make this community difficult (for women) to participate in, and 3) big guys are hot!

Thanks for the ask and the self-reflection! haha

[fatterbiggersofter]

I've queued something about it so more on the subject in the future! (Far future, my queue is long.)

Buuut, we've had the puppy play thing. Very popular in the feedist community. So what do you think about kitty play?

Lounging around all day doing nothing, receiving so much affection and spoiling. From a stray to a spoiled housecat. With plenty of cream. Just lazing around, occasionally moody and demanding. Other times affectionate and sweet.

Do you think it could work? Maybe I'm just not around much (lol), but I don't think I've ever seen it. It must be rare if it is out there.

preview of coming attractions, I'm honored!

I can see the vision! I think the cream is what sold me haha. There's definitely the common archetype of the super fat cat with their dedicated indentation on the couch, "fluffy"-related monikers, and temperament (that coulddddd be eased with some extra rubs and food).

I think the cat comp is less common because cats have more of a reputation for being independent rather than trainable/overfeedable/food-motivated in the way that dogs are? I'm not a pet play expert by any means, but you've always got the details down for fleshing out those less-common dynamics in a way that gets me thinking so I can't wait to read what you've got cooked up! :)

[fatterbiggersofter]

??? Did your age in ur bio go up recently? Happy birthday if so!

yes it did! thank you :D my birthday is in late Q2, canonically the best quarter to have been born into