This post is not about astrology, it is... a self-help post
I think failure is an obsession with people in life. The opposite of it is 'success'. For me personally, from an early age, myself, my parents' expectation to me is success, here success is symbolized as doing the right thing, not making mistakes, having to be perfect and tidy. , elegant, so there are times when there are small mistakes, especially in studying, I have become very sensitive and scary when I make it, I still feel it now, but it is much less than before; I still feel very afraid to study, but that doesn't mean I don't like to learn new things, find out new information. I don't blame the situation entirely either, I'm just aware of the sources, perceptions, and counter-feelings in my brain for it. Myself when I hear about the description of failure as poor future, poverty, no place in society, scorn,… (it may or may not be true) When I heard that, I was very scared and hated to fail. But in the process of growing up, I am also quite curious and want to try new things like new foods, try reading new languages, etc. sometimes I cook food until the third time. ok after learning from experience every 1st and 2nd time. For example, the 1st time I find myself giving too much dough, or the fire seems to be too big, how long does it take to flip each side, then I will draw cards learn to be better next time Those experiences are all very visceral and interesting. And then I thought, if I didn't try to do it and was afraid of failure, how could I have any more experience, any more skills? Wouldn't that make life less interesting? I think we can all start from scratch, there's no such thing as failure and it's too late to start learning. Try your best Once I went through and read in a psychology research page that explains about ''addiction'', it was because that person had a certain failure, a certain suffering and they could not share it with them. Who to understand, that leads them to turn to gambling, alcohol, sex to relieve themselves because when doing that action, the brain secretes happiness hormone and makes them temporarily forget the present. Everything will be fine, really…
Dottie
