despite the addams family being dedicated on their lack of remorse or even empathy on the topic of death & murder , there were situations where pugsley found it too hard to bare . sure , he was an adult now , but once a month , at least , he was found having his breakdown . a breakdown that was dedicated to his unawareness of himself . he always wanted a love like his parents , wanted a friendship like everyone he watched around town , but he could never separate himself from his love of torture & actually enjoy the time he got with people . failure ? that’s what he felt like . sniffling , he reached up to wipe away his tears before nodding towards his sister . ‘‘ can i help ? ’’