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Anon Advice Asks - April 11

midnights anon, names anon (new), pictures anon (new), panromantic anon, parkour anon, skating anon

midnights anon

Hi <3

I know you said I didn't have to answer but I just want you to know that I am so proud of you. Life isn't easy, and you're doing such a great job just....life-ing. Remember that getting better and healing from trauma isn't linear. You'll have good days and bad days. It doesn't mean you're doing any less fantastic <3

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names anon

Hi Cas!!

I've just officially started dating someone, but they go by she/they pronouns and recently they asked me to be their girlfriend, and I'm really happy! I was wondering if you had any gender neutral boyfriend /girlfriend terms because I don't know any, and we're not up to pet names yet. ✨✨

Hi! Congratulations!

I know most people use 'partner.' I've also heard:

significant other

date mate

datefriend

themfriend

sweetheart

my person

I hope that helps! Sending you both love!

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pictures anon

HELP I DONT KNOW WHO TO TELL BUT GUESS WHAT

I was hanging out with the friend group which is like 5 or 6 of us

And afterward

This girl (I have a crush on)

Texted me

And was like

Hey I thought you looked really pretty tonight so I took a couple pictures of you, here they are

And they were just shots of me like laughing or looking at my phone or whatever

BUT SHE THOUGHT I WAS PRETTY

AHHH

No one ever said anything that nice to me bruh like it was amazing completely separate from fhe fact I like her

How sweet

OMG this is so sweet! She was obviously looking at you :D Keep me updated if anything happens!

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panromantic anon

Hey Cas! It's panromantic anon, and I saw an anon ask if you knew who your anons are, and I want to ask, do you know who I am? I mean I have been pretty obvious so-

I mean, don't mind you knowing who I am, I go by anon because a lot of people are reading those asks and I don't want a lot of people to know, but I don't mind you or a few mutuals figuring out so I posted things on my blog about things I ask here as well.

I was just curious, you can say yes or no or not answer this at all! Sorry to be a bother-

Hi

Not a bother at all!

Honestly, I have no idea lol. Which I think you've said before that you've been obvious and I got so confused. I thought, oh maybe you're someone I know from discord maybe? just because you said that. but I truly have no clue.

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parkour anon

Parkour anon,

So um, I am not afab or girl, I am cis guy but, tbh thinking about it, I look very feminine. I don't feel comfortable with it but my face has softer lines I guess ? and can't grow any facial hair bc of a medicine. Sucks a little. Maybe he is homophobic ? Dunno, I had more girlfriends than him but I also had boyfriends in the past so.

Anyway, he still doesn't let me do my goddamn work so I started to do the same to you out of spite. I know it's not the best thing to do but, telling a guy who works out a lot 'he can rest if he is tired, it's not easy for guys like him' in the 10th minute of a 2 hours training is so fucking funny. Sorry not sorry. Anyway, I have to deal with him a little, but, 3 weeks later I will be the lídar. It's some sort of team captain? I don't know how to explain it , but It means I will assign the works for 6 weeks, and then another person in my team will take that position.

And yeah, technically speaking, I am stronger than him. not in every aspect of course, physically maybe we would have a draw or he might win, or I might win depending on our states. If I am gonna be honest he is great, but like, I have been trained more than him in year count.

Don't know why he is acting like that. It's stupid.

Hi!

I'm so sorry, I hope I didn't offend you. But yeah, the homophobia makes total sense. I originally asked because the behavior seemed so bigoted, you know? Maybe he's jealous as well, if you can get girls and he cant...

But omg you telling him things are not easy for 'guys like him' is SO perfect and I laughed out loud reading that. 10/10 perfect response. I'm sorry he's acting like that, I'm glad you'll get some power soon.

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skating anon

Hiii

I'm skating anon

Soo I haven't built up any courage to tell her I like her however I think my chances have gone down like like 70%

I just figured out she's demi too so I feel like there's like 0 chance

I mean technically it's more like an update than an ask but yeah still do you think I should anyway build up the courage

Alsoo

Skating anon again

I know it's not an ask just thought it might give someone a small laugh

So the girl I like wants an undercut but the hairdresser she goes to is like the old people gossip place so she ain't going there for an undercut, her friend suggested a hairdresser however he's gay and so he might assume she's gay and ask something so she doesn't want him to give her an undercut

But there aren't any other options left

So her mum told her that she should tell her dad to cut it for her

So moral of the story she wanted an undercut but now it's her dad who's gonna actually do the undercut for her

Hi!

Okay I'm confused. From your second ask, are you saying she's not gay and that's bad? Because if she's demi and likes your gender, then you still completely have a chance...just because someone's demi doesn't mean they don't want to date/don't like people! It just means they need to get to know you first! I don't think that affects your chances at all, really. As long as you get to know her!

Also good for her for getting an undercut. I want one so bad but I'm not brave enough.

[badgerhuan]

hey! saw ur tags on that one post about names. ik you haven't changed ur bio/url yet so the answer is presumably no but! is there a different name you'd like us to start using or one you want to try out or anything? 💕

hi! thank you for noticing my tags and checking in with me haha. honestly i was thinking of making that transition on here, but hadn’t gotten around to it, and your ask gave me the final push to go through with it! so, thank you. <3

the name’s roch now! pronounced “roach“ (yes, like the horse. can also be pronounced as “rock”, but where’s the fun in that?). some close friends have been using it for me for a few days, and i thought it’s only fair that i use it here too. it’s where i’m most comfortable being myself, after all. :D

i’m slowly updating my tags accordingly, but yes! i am now roch. :>

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jackson

Whenever I hear “Jackson,” it is automatically that GOT7 quirky Jackson. Or, um,*coughs* the one from ‘Hannah Montana’*coughs uncontrollably*

Anyway, I’ve never really known a Jackson in real life, sorry ^^

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If you are doing the name thing can you please do Grace?

I will do the name thing, yes! So sorry it took so long, though.

Grace is a very pretty name! One of my cousins has that name. When I think of Grace, though, I’m mostly reminded of Daddy Warbucks’s assistant in “Annie” lol.

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Brionna

This is going to be quite boring sorry ahaha 😅

I actually have never really known someone in real life with that name! The closest is Brianna, which is a classmate’s name? But, I didn’t really know them that well..

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