I just thought of this and wanted to share it. For many people -including me- figuring out sexuality is a hard thing to do.
For a solid year, I had no clue how to define my feelings, and if they were even real.
But for me, this is what tipped me off, and for my other bi questioning people, this might help you.
(I’m a -not fully a girl anymore lol- girl, and I go by she/*they pronouns, this will be important for the next bit) -Edited later-
Whenever I was listening to a song that was sung by a girl, whenever she would use she/they pronouns for the person she was singing about, it would make me so happy.
It was like a warm, buttery feeling in my chest.
Even if it was a cover of a song, it made me so happy, and still does. Like whenever I heard Cupid’s Chokehold (“And she loves the music that my band makes...” that one) sung by a girl, I just felt so warm and happy.
I know this isn’t my usual thing, but I wanted to share. Has anyone else experienced something similar?
Reblog with what helped you realize your sexuality and hopefully this will help someone.
