#nerdana

[medullasoblongotcha]

Scale of 0-10 how queer are my knuckle tats?

[medullasoblongotcha]

Zwicky is pondering. She is too cute to ponder such depths in her heated kitty cup. Stop pondering Zwicky. Photo by: @inkandmoxie

[medullasoblongotcha]

Howdy y’all. Turned my asks back on so figured I’d make a pinned post for anyone curious.

I’m Charlie B. and I’m a lot older than virtually all of you. Hahaha. I’m 44 (born in 1981) that’s right, an elder millennial. This is my third time on tumblr through the ages. I’m a genderfluid, AFAB, queer physician (medical doctor) living in the United States.

If you happen to be on bluesky, I am there too! @lepetitoiseau.bsky.social

I collect swords, knives and other weapons, have done martial arts and dance for years, play chess and am in the local bird club. I also love comics, books, hiking and kayaking.

Tumblr is a place I come to decompress, laugh, casually reach out to folks and vent at times.

This is an eclectic sex positive communication blog and I believe that education and outreach about safe sex is empowerment for all. If you’re queer and have any general questions about your sexual health, safety, BDSM, kink, or anything adjacent my asks are open to you.

However, please do not interact with this blog if you are a minor. If you are a minor please contact a guardian you trust, with whom you can discuss your concerns safely and discreetly. Nobody has to be alone with their questions or fears.

With that said: kinks I do not discuss/participate with in any capacity:

-Adult Baby

-Mommy/Daddy

-Bathroom Control

-Blood Choking

-Figging

-Forced Feeding

-Scat

There are others but they haven’t come up and I hope they never will. These have.

This blog is a safe place for all genders but if a person requests specific interaction limits on their post please RESPECT THAT.

Hate speech is never tolerated in any capacity. This is not a place for racism, bigotry, classism, xenophobia, sexism, or bullying.

Otherwise if you find yourself with questions about things this is a safe place to ask them, even if it’s just anonymously. I am not going to give specific medical advice or directions through this blog and anyone who ever does should never be trusted, physician or not, period. If you ask a question as yourself, understand that since this platform is built the way it is, I have to post it publicly in order to answer it, so it will be public so keep that in mind when asking questions. If the topic is more personal I encourage you to post it anonymously if you feel vulnerable about it or want to maintain your privacy. If you are in a situation that is dangerous or an emergency, please find help as quickly as possible. If I start actually getting questions again I’ll develop and post a proper tag list for now I don’t have one. Hahaha.

[medullasoblongotcha]

Someone called me a “theydy” instead of a “lady” today and it was so gender affirming I wanted to wrap myself up in the moment and stay there.

[medullasoblongotcha]

Grumpy, chatty, tatted butch who chatters on and on about her day at work to her exhausted femme who can listen to her gab for an eternity.

[medullasoblongotcha]

Have you ever sat in a waiting room worried you’re breathing too loudly or did you have a good childhood?

[medullasoblongotcha]

A year.

Being queer.

With another queer.

I love you, my dear.

[medullasoblongotcha]

First of all, if you think you can control me just because you’re a grumpy, tattooed butch wearing aviators, clunky boots and your belt slung down on your hips over that ribbed tank top, yes, yes you fucking can.