#neverbeenonadate

[marissa-bella]

Dates

If she cancels a date, she has to.

If he cancels a date, he has two.

[imnotdrphilbutimreal]

22 Year Old Virgin

The best part of my days is meeting new people and hearing their stories. I promise I am a human tape recorder and the joy is that people open up and tell me some of their most intimate details which brings up this story. 

Today I was at work and I'm helping a customer (total stranger) he starts telling me that he is 22 years old and never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and has had minimal conversation with females other than family. I  was appalled. The young man came off as very intelligent,decent looking and wore glasses but he did not come off as confident.He came off as timid/push over. He lived a very sheltered life he was home schooled but he is now in college.

My advice to him was "BE CONFIDENT". I learned early when it comes to the law of attraction you have to be confident inside and out. You have to own who you are in order to draw people to you. He tells me that he is confident but I am telling him that I don't see that outwardly. I think that his intelligence knows the right words to say but his body language reads something totally different. Body language speaks volumes about your confidence level. I also told him to hang out in places where like minded women are so he may mingle. I also told him to try "Online Dating" he said he did that. Everything I named...He said he had done that..The sad part is he said most women he goes to school with has kids and even the ones he meets online has kids. The best advice I did give this young man was to "Be Yourself!" no matter what don't change who you are to draw people to you, the right person will come along and be exactly what you need and want.

For once I didn't have the answers.. I am coming to you all.. What do you suggest this young man do to at least get a date? Could it be his approach ? His Look? His Confidence? Is he going for what he can't handle/ready for? I would love to hear your input on this.

[pouchprincesspeach]

DAY 13: A date you would love to go on

I've never been on a date before so maybe I would love to go dinner in a decent restaurant doesn't necessarily have to be fine dinning. Then maybe a stroll on the street and then talk somemore about each other just relaxing and having a good time. :) Just like the stuff that I do with my friends. But I'm cool with anything, theme park, extreme sports or clubbin' etc you name it! Haha.

[alexcorinne]

first date tomorrow. so nervous, so scared.

i want to back out so so bad, but i know that's not the right thing to do. gotta move on, gotta stay strong and face my fears.

fears of dating, fears of moving on, and fears of actually meeting someone who could be good for me.

wish me luck!