F/O Asperger Headcanons - #1 V
(Since I have Asperger/Autism, I wanted to do some headcanons based on how my f/o's handle my autism.)
Hyperfixation (Aka my Love to my OCs):
Ngl, he's interested in the topic. For real.
Those little stories, character development...and the smile of his love, of course, are making the topic so interesting for him
He wants Choco to talk to him as often about her OCs as possible. She always explains a lot about them, and she seems to be truly happy when doing that.
However, he's pretty sad about how Choco pulls herself down, saying she has little to none talent making Characters. He always tries to show her the positive stuff about her work and gives some ideas as well.
"Look at her eyes. They shine as bright as the stars. A happy girl, isn't she?"
Since V loves himself some calm, silent moments, he notices pretty fast when things get stressful
He notices every single thing about Choco, when she gets stressed out: an angry expression, her boldness, she's even rude sometimes.
Before an argument can start, he will raise his cane at the people stressing her out, telling them he will talk to her.
"Hush now...I will talk to her about that. She will listen to me"
He carries Choco away to a silent corner/room, so she can calm down/cry out her feelings.
And yes, he even hugs her, even when he knows he might get caught.
Rageouts/Emotional Outbursts
Her Outbursts are still a huge problem for Choco. She insults people, gets rude and loud and in the end she regrets it again and again.
In very rare cases, she even screams at V. But looking in his eyes makes her regret her actions even faster.
V doesn't judge her for the outbursts. He knows how much emotional stress she has in her soul
He will take her in his arms and whisper a bit to her, while making sure she doesn't do anything stupid.
He basically kills her wrath with kindness and understanding.
"Your emotions, thou are overtaking you...Just listen to my voice, you'll be fine. I'm here for you."
Scared of Social Interaction
Often talks to other people on Choco's behalf. He knows how scared she is of others, especially huge men. And so, he will talk to them as often as possible, while trying to teach Choco how she can interact with others.
His mysterious behaviour can put someone off, but he doesn't mind that much. And he want to teach Choco this attitude
But he does it slowly, putting no presure onto his love. just calm and smooth.
"I'm certain you will laugh with them like you laugh with me soon"
Choco has problems to talk without stuttering at times, she talks before she thinks. V doesn't mind it. If Choco ends up getting confused at her own words, he gently smiles at her, telling her that everything is ok and he understood her
He started a "therapy" thing with her. Every night, he will lay by her side, asking her about the positive things of the day. He wants her to become more confident in herself and happier.
Choco doesn't stim. But V is currently researching about the topic, since he thinks it can help Choco with coping.
When he uses sarcasm and Choco doesn't understand it, he will smirk at her for a very short time. That's their sign of "That was a joke, cutie"
He knows the impact his voice has on her. So, he often records voice messages for her she can listen to when things get overwhelming again and he isn't there to help her.