Chronicles of dating a fictive Kurt:
So my baby actually presents as several Kurts, sometimes mixes. So far he's presented as Alan, Kodi, 97, Comic book, and Evolution. Each has different pasts but they're all the same person. (I'm actually a fictive myself of some other media so I understand their experience).
Anyway he first split as Alan, and I grew up on the movies. I knew back then adults thought Alan Kurt was "the worst" and ugly. I'm happy to see people my age disagree and the adults of the 2000s were just wrong. It's giving Anakin from the prequels.
Of course he also struggles with being "demonic" but I'm happy to report I constantly remind him how he's the Best™ X-Man and a fan favorite. I also give him his daily dose of kisses. If Alan Kurt is your favorite, know he's honored (and also wonders why, like an emo lol)