I think about what kind of parent I will be and I'm constantly reminded that I will be this person: "Oh my gosh, what are you having?" "A baby..." "Oh haha, I mean boy or girl?" "Whatever they decide..." "Haha, so you're not gonna know the gender until birth! That's nice. The surprise is---" "I'm not gonna know until they TELL ME AT THE POINT WHEN THEY'RE COMFORTABLE IN THEIR IDENTITY, BRENDA."









