So I'm kinda stuck, I personally would rather it be like a phase but what if it's not and I'm actually bi but at the same time I've always had the mind set of who cares you know, like who ever you want, happiness is really the only important part but I think it would just be easier if i knew bc i know for a fact that I would never tell most of my family and it's not about accepting or whatever it's against their religion. This is pretty much venting sorry.
When discovering their sexuality everyone would rather it be a phase because oppression sucks and no one oppresses heterosexuals :/ You are 100% right, happiness is sooooooo important. Just remember to not keep that “its probably a phase” mentality. <3 Good luck on ur journey of life bby
-Ash