#not calling

[soulmates-twinflames]

He Stops Calling Now What Do you Do? -

When he stops calling it can drive you crazy, especially if you are in a relationship.Has he ended it,found someone else,or just busy with life?

[remotelydone]

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[deditvs-blog]

tfw when upjumped shitty little elf is shit talking ur regulus and your eous :/

[gluecks-faenger]

They're never dead, they're just not calling.

Nicola Doherty about boys who don't call

[shelbys-advice-blog]

My boyfriend hasn't texted me since he was over here on Sunday and he told me his internet was gonna be out but it should be fixed by now and now I'm freaking out thinking he doesn't really like me........ Help

Hi love,

Let’s do some deep breathing. Breathe in though your nose for 1... 2.. 3... 4... and out though your mouth 4... 3... 2... 1... It’s going to be okay.

I have some suggestions on things you can do to help calm you down if deep breathing isn’t working for you:

Calming/distracting Websites

The Quiet Place

Rainymood.com

Calm.com

Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match

A website to distract yourself

A recovery masterpost

A post of interesting things

Ungruntle yourself

Press a magic button and fix everything

Play cute games

Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)

How to love yourself

A website that compliments you

I do understand your concerns and your feelings are 100% valid. You have every right to be worried. I’ve been in your shoes and I am going to give you some sample suggestions of how you could maybe get a hold of your boyfriend...

Call cellphone/home phone

Drive over to his house or walk

Call someone close to him (parents, friends, siblings etc)

Check his social media account and see when/where he updated last

Something else that might help you is to write out your feelings and emotions. When I can’t get ahold of Andrew, I try to distract myself from my strong urges and emotions. In other words, below are some coping skills that might help you out:

Throw darts at a dartboard

Go for a run

Write your feelings on paper then rip it up

Use stress relievers

Build a fort of pillows and then destroy it

Throw ice cubes at the bathtub wall, at a tree, etc

Get out a fine tooth comb and vigorously brush the fur of a stuffed animal (but use gentle vigor)

Slash an empty plastic soda bottle or a piece of heavy cardboard or an old shirt or sock

Make a soft cloth doll to represent the things you are angry at; cut and tear it instead of yourself

Flatten aluminium cans for recycling, seeing how fast you can go

On a sketch or photo of yourself, mark in red ink what you want to do. Cut and tear the picture

Break sticks

Cut up fruits

Make yourself as comfortable as possible

Stomp around in heavy shoes

Play handball or tennis

Yell at what you are breaking and tell it why you are angry, hurt, upset, etc.

Buy a cheap plate and decorate it with markers, stickers, cut outs from magazines, words, images, what ever that expresses your pain and sadness and when you’re done, smash it. (Please be careful when doing this)

Take a bath or hot shower

Pet or cuddle with a dog or cat

Wrap yourself in a warm blanket

I am almost certain that your boyfriend loves you and want to be with you. If he didn’t love you, then he wouldn’t be with you. Honey, once again your feelings are valid and its okay to feel stressed out. Just remember that there are tons of possibilities of why your boyfriend hasn’t called you since Sunday. I do urge you to make sure you’re taking care of YOU.

Keep me updated? xx

[hatebook]

I hate when people say "I'll call you back" and they never call you back. Olay if you aren't going to call back then don't say it. Come On, just call back!

[eaterofsouls4]

someone skype me I'm really bored