#missing boyfriend

[medieval-tales]

Quarantine mood: quickly becoming a dalgona coffee enthusiast.

I miss my boyfriend and our dissertation afternoons in the cafeteria too much.

But the good side is that we now have dissertation appointments via webcam every afternoon. I'm making the dalgona to try to feel in my comfort zone.

[happilyconfused]

My boyfriend left for work 5 and a half hours ago... it's supposed to be a 3 hour job. Lowkey starting to get worried

[cheylovesships]

This Space

This space between us right now kills me. I miss you, I miss you so so much. It hurts, I want you to respond yo my calls and texts. I want to hold you and kiss you and be with you. I know you can't be here with me or have your phone, but I feel so alone and empty without you, I need you. This week is going to be so tough and long. When I see you again my hug and kiss are going to be sufficating. I love you, please still be mine when you come back, I love you 😙♥

[irllylikepink]

missing bf hours

sighhhhhhhhh

so like

what u guys up to

[this-is-poetry-blog]

Missing you

It's been one week One week without your warmth Your smell One week without your laugh Or the way you say goodnight I never knew I could feel this absence My soul is begging for you How can you expect me to wait 3 more days

[massdragonchick]

Romance

So, since the boyfriend is MIA and refusing to talk to me, in spite of his repeated promises to stop doing that to me, I’m trying to keep my thoughts on other things. Considering the majority of what I’ve been thinking about is suicide, I’m doing everything in my power to distract myself. I’ve even finished writing my “note.” And fucked up my arm twice in one week. But it’s hard to think of positive things when your former “best friend” messages you trying to reconcile, with no apology and then stabs you in the back during said “reconciliation.” Like I needed more reasons to think about dying. But at any rate, I’m trying to focus my energy on better things though. So a girl that I’ve been in love with for years is single and wanting to be with me. I’ve been pushing it away because I still have some trust issues and hurt feelings about things that happened in the past. So I got stupid drunk over the weekend (because I need to drown my pain in everything and anything I can), and asked her out on a date. So in a few weeks, she and I will be going on our first official date together. I’ve planned a whole thing. I made her a bouquet with some flowers of her favorite colors, put Mardi Gras beads on them because she loves them, they add color, and fill space in the vase. Then I took her favorite chocolates and put marshmallow roasting sticks in them to add to the bouquet like more flowers. And I used candy bracelet/necklace things to hold the flowers together. Then I put glow sticks and glow bracelets inside the vase too, for her to use later in the night. I’ve also planned to wear my sexiest dress, with heels (bringing my boots for backup), and rainbow eyeshadow with red lipstick. Trying to look as good as possible. So my plan is to either pick her up, or meet her somewhere in between our houses. I’ll be waiting for her to come over to me, holding the bouquet and the card I got her. Then we will go to a dollar movie first. Then to Subway, because it’s not too expensive or fancy but we can also sit down and enjoy food that isn’t greasy and gross like McDonald’s. Then we’re going to a lesbian bar/club in Dallas called Sue Ellen’s (which is where the glow sticks come in). And then I’m taking her to an area near my house with a beautiful view of the sky, so we can look at the stars and listen to the playlist I made for her (though, I need to find my Bluetooth speaker because it’s missing). Then back to my place, where my husband agreed to sleep on the couch so we can have the bed together alone. Hopefully, I can survive long enough to enjoy it, with a boyfriend who is ignoring me and probably cheating on me and doing drugs since he doesn’t give a flying fuck about me. But if I can, I think it’ll be an amazing night So long as everything goes according to plan.

[theoriginalblackdora]

I've been talking with this boy from work and I feel like I'm playing a dangerous game rn. We both are in relationships and I love my boyfriend and he's been with his girl for a log ass time. But there is just a strong connection between us. He's so easy to talk to, super sweet, and just knows how to make me feel special. But we just want to be friends and I'm fine with it. But the more we talk the more I want him And I think it's mostly because I miss my boyfriend and haven't been touched, kissed or fucked in months!!!!! And I know this boy wants me, but I have to be good, because I literally see my boyfriend in a week!!! I'll continue flirting cuz it's fun and makes me feel wanted. And i haven't felt very wanted by the boyfran and it's mostly cuz we're busy. So we'll see I guess

[shelbys-advice-blog]

So my boyfriend is out on a mission trip right now and he's 6 days in on the 14 day trip. Normally I cope decently with not seeing him in a week or two because his family takes trips every now and then. The thing that I'm struggling with is the fact that he's in an area without cell service and not hearing anything from him in so long is really starting to have its toll on me mentally. He's my rock and keeps a lot of my mental stuff at bay and now I can't contact him when I need support. Help?

Hi darling,

I honestly completely understand how you’re feeling. My boyfriend Andrew recently moved in with his grandpa which is about 3 hours away from me. I hardly see Andrew now and its very tough. But I want you to know that when two people love each other, they make any situation work.

The way I cope with Andrew being gone is knowing that he’ll come see me when things get straightened out with his brand new job and the whole farm life. I have to remember that Andrew loves me and when he’s gone, I’ve got to focus on myself and my dreams. For example... I got a nanny job so that takes up weekdays so that limits my worries and keeps me occupied. I have friends to hangout with and family I can call up and make plans with.

Something important that I seem to remind myself a lot is it doesn’t hurt to miss your boyfriend when he’s not with you. Its normal, I miss Andrew so much sometimes I cry. But you know what? Things are going good for him up at the farm and things are going okay/good for me here. I cannot lose site that things get better over time.

As for your boyfriend being on a mission trip with little to no cell service, I advise you to try and work on things around your house or maybe school or work related things. When Andrew is out in the fields with no cell service, I clean my room, walk my dog, call my friends. But that doesn’t mean you can’t contact your boyfriend. Tag him in things on Facebook. snapchat him your adorable face, send him cute texts, let him know you miss him but understand that things are gonna be okay with both of you.

Another thing that helps me when I’m missing Andrew and I haven’t seen him in weeks, is to write him love notes, draw cute pictures, make playlists on you tube expressing my love for him and when I do see him, I give him all the notes and show him the songs and we have a great time together.

I have some cool distractions that you might find interesting, let me know if you try em out and they work for you!

Glitter calm jars

A list of things to do to curb anxiety

Make a blanket nest

Silky summer legs

Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts  

For bad days masterpost

Make some microwave snacks

Five minute fudge

Make a phone case

A bunch of hobbies!

Self care list!

Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)

I’d also like too add a few things that might also help you out when you’re missing your boyfriend, they’re not like the distractions above, they’re a little more person and I hope you try them out as well and they give you a smile!

Here is a live kitten feed

Here is a live puppy feed

Here is a live penguin feed

Here is a live sea otter feed

Here is a live panda feed

Hope this helps, keep your head up darling, things will turn around don’t you worry! :)