#not force

[dwaaljongen]

it’s ok to slow down when you need to. it’s ok to go about things in a way that feels right to you, even if it’s inefficient. honestly, take a detour because the view is prettier or you feel more comfortable in that part of town. spend 5 hours on a project instead of 2, because you’re in the flow and have the hours anyway. take time to eat in peace. walk places instead of taking public transport. go to bed early when you’re tired. take breaks. you’re not a machine! listen to your wants and needs. 

[rhapsodyinrebellion]

I’m a service sub…

Not a brat.

If you come into life and try to use brat tamer energy… try to “put me in my place”? Boy bye.

I thrive off of positive reinforcement.

I can be a masochist, when negotiated.

But I need a loving affectionate dynamic, where I can trust you to take care of things.

Try to force me into “my place” and I won’t stick around.

[herdarkandquietspace]

[poet-of-roses-and-death]

"Jehan, I have encountered a tragedy as serious as any you might have studied: Enjolras has never attended a ball, and refuses to be persuaded. You must help me, for his sake!"

At the sound of Grantaire’s voice, Jehan glanced up from the book they were reading. Indeed, this was a serious issue, an issue which needed to be solved at once. The book could wait. “This is a tragedy, how could he refuse? He must open himself up to new experiences, and attending a ball is the perfect place to start.” Jehan put the book down and shifted forward in their seat. “How shall we guide this troubled soul? How can we show him the light?”