Aug 6, 2022
I’m not an option. If you feel you need to choose between me and someone else, then I’ll make it easy for you and walk away.
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I’m not an option. If you feel you need to choose between me and someone else, then I’ll make it easy for you and walk away.
Importance in someone else's life
Never, ever, ever, force yourself into someone's life. IF they want you in their life, they will not only make room for you, but find a way that you stay.
If you feel like no one wants you in their life, then you are surrounded by the wrong people. It shouldn't be a chore to be a part of someones life. It shouldn't be difficult to have to fight to stay in their life.
Think about it this way... when YOU want someone in your life, do you make them work at just trying to get your attention or do you feel like you can't wait to talk to them? I don't mean this as JUST for relationships. But friendships as well. Never be someone's second best, a "just in case", or scapegoat.
What I am saying is, if someone really wants to hang out with this other person, but that doesn't fall through, then they use you simply because you are there.
Your very own happiness comes first. simple as that. No exceptions. It's ok to make others happy, but only if you are happy first.
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you are not.
