sorry, but we owe things to each other. respect your peace and prioritize yourself, sure
(and this doesn't apply to your abusers, of course)
but
if you're leaving someone or ending a friendship and they truly have no idea why you're making that choice and it actively hurts them or triggers their trauma:
that's fucking cruel
you're a coward at best, toxic or abusive at worst
it takes two seconds to tell someone why you're leaving instead of intentionally leaving them scrambling forever wondering why and what changed and what happened
and how can they ever be accountable if they don't even know what they've done wrong
ghosting people you talk to every day without giving them a reason why you're doing so has honestly become it's own sort of abuse
especially if they're neurodivergent or have abandonment trauma
discarding people without warning is not the act of Self Love that "wellness culture" under capitalism makes it to be
throwing away friendships and relationships without ever telling the other person why so that they can heal or be accountable or understand why you made that choice is fully an act of harming others.
your closure and well being shouldn't come at the cost of more trauma for others
say goodbye when you leave people: it is the absolute least you could do
