I can be so unaware of things happening and being said to my face. It used to shock Sbona when Suffocate was always throwing jabs but I was not aware and as a result I carried on being nice to her until I opened my eyes. Let me tell you a true story, my cousin's child passed on a while ago and my sister being ever so helpful took crockery and cutlery from our house in preparation for the funeral. She got fed up with the politics and left very abruptly because of emotions. I was left with the task of gathering my mom's things and bringing them home😒 So I get there and my nephew is busy loading the stuff in the car when I am offered a cooldrink with the words "you see it's sealed", I thought nothing of it. Months pass by and then I am asked to apologize for accusing someone of witchcraft! Needless to say, I refused because I had said no such. When I tell my brother (Mdu) about this, he says to me "I said that and I am willing to repeat it in front of anybody". I am yet to receive an apology for being accused of ukunuka umuntu. My accuser sited what had happened to me (at my auntie's funeral in 2018) involving the alleged witch,which was: 1. She patted me on the bums at the church (no greetings nothing) 2. She pulled my arm playfully during "sign of peace" 3. She came & hugged me after Mass, whispering in my ear that I was about to get izibhobo at church, what she did a preventative action. I chose to not respond to her because we were rushing to the grave site and frankly I didn't want to engage with her about her bizarre behavior. Later on as we were having lunch at my aunt's house, I told my siblings about what had happened. I also told my friends when I got back to Pretoria and that's the extent of my utterances. I feel the need to share this with you, so that I can let it go and not be angered by it any more. #thedevilisaliar #nottobemessedwith #trymenot #yekelaniamanga (at Pretoria, South Africa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGAA2ifpDU4/?igshid=bi8tjaf9u9um
