#o aida

[aromanticgcallen]

o aida replied to your post: go start another sentence

lix wtf do you think you’re doing exactly, i need my heart

[evil cackling echoes in the distance]

[aromanticgcallen]

OFC I AGREE, YOU’RE RIGHT. I’ll get mad on your behalf, I have enough anger to share around. Your last paragraph is golden, bc that’s exactly it. And like. It pisses me off big time when ppl talk shit like that. It’s ignorant, ridiculous & harmful.

like they say stuff like that and then are like 'it's only a fictional character' like a) not an excuse b) no it's not, there are real people who are hurt by this?? ?? ?? ugh people S U C K

(thank u friend <3 <3)

[aromanticgcallen]

that’s so gross??!!??!? nonono, that person is a literal piece of shit and belongs in the darkest corner of hell. abuse is abuse and you can never say that one sort of abuse is worst than another bc that’s NOT TRUE. jfc what a perfect example of shit

IM ACTUALLY REALLY GLAD U AGREE WITH ME ABOUT THIS

like

i have such a hard time getting mad on my own behalf?? ?? ? 

especially when it comes to The Abuse Thing like. hahahahhh every time i hear something like that it's reinforcing every gross thing i've internalized about my own situation and ugh no stop why is this happening it's just making me feel even worse about feeling hurt in my situation like??

it's. a barrel of suck. 

cause it's not just about fiction. it's not about fictional characters, not all the way, and even if it was that'd still be shitty, but with something like this there are Real World Ramifications and. ugh.

[aromanticgcallen]

hi there! I just wondered why in your opinion penelope (from criminal minds) is autistic? I'm really fond of that show but I never thought about it! (though I have not seen the most recent season) I would be very interested in knowing what you think about it :) thank you by advance!

penelope garcia autistic queen of my heart (also general anxiety disorder penelope but that’s another kettle of fish entirely)

okay like so the way she TALKS gosh she has a whole other kind of way to interpret the world running through her head and it comes out in her voice, she talks fast and in a way that a lot of people would think is ‘weird’ and doesn’t really cope well trying to make herself fit the usual model of how a ‘normal person’ would talk.

her absolute love of bright things and having her little baubles around her workplace like that reminds me so much of me and how comforting it is to be somewhere and have things that make you feel comforted around like imagine autistic penelope getting overloaded and watching a snowglobe for like thirty minutes eeeee.

it is HER SPACE and you do not mess with HER SPACE like i know if somebody moves something around in my room i get really agitated and distressed about it and she’s the same way, like. sameness is important. she has everything in a place for a reason and change bothers her.

like straight up though, change bothers her deeply, more than anybody else there. enough said.

finally: just imagine penelope stimming with a fluffy feather pen and a chunky beaded bracelet. the BEST.

[aromanticgcallen]

ugh ugh ughhhh that whole situation is so gross i’m so sorry, u deserve so much better than fandoms that have a twisted view of abuse. people should shut up about things they know nothing about.

see the worst thing was like??? the person going 'that wasn't bad enough to ~count as abuse' was a person who then went 'my mother was so so much worse that kid should count himself lucKY' and 

that was just

great

(thank u friend i rly appreciate it <3)

[aromanticgcallen]

people are pieces of shit and that right there, what you’re talking about, is why i swore off fandoms. there’s always someone doing that shit and it’s just ‘stopstopstopstopstopSTOP that’s an awful piece of shit shUT UP stop invalidating abuse’

lol especially because a lot of what she did reminded me of what happens in my house hahahh hahhah hhh gotta love feeling personally attacked and invalidated by somebody dismissing the abusive behavior of a fictional character

people are indeed pieces of shit, especially when it comes to stuff like this.

[aromanticgcallen]

o-aida said: did the anon think that maybe all that discomfort is caused by allistic people being assholes instead of being caused by autism. bc the difficulty communicating and all that would be solved if allistics realized that not everyone is the fucking same

allistic people: *makes it super difficult for autistic people to communicate successfully*

allistic people: *designs the whole world to cater specifically to them*

allistic people: man that autism sure does cause a lot of problems amirite

[aromanticgcallen]

o-aida said: this is like a fucking allistic bingo card, why are they all so predictable? need help with the asshole?

im gonna make one i swear to god