Like-minded men into men
Santa and I had a great long talk tonight. He's becoming a really good friend that I'm grateful to know. We have an interesting backstory that connects us - we were so close and yet so far. And yes, he really looks like Santa ... a really good one. We talked about gay men today versus the past, friendship, lifestyle, relationships and behavior. We are decades apart in age, but man, did we have similar stories. Not only were our stories from our own experiences, but also from observing others and the community! Whoa. He and I get along well, because we're simple guys first and then gay somewhere down the list. Nobody thinks we're gay, but we're not acting or anything like that. We're being our authentic selves, we know who we are and we enjoy our life. It's great that we all have freedom and choice to be who we are. We just wish it were easier to find more guys like us.