#oming out

[transenbyconfessions]

I have finally come to terms with who I am. I want to be able to be whatever gender I want to express that day. Some days I wake up and want to put on a dress and do my makeup, other days I want to wear tshirts and shorts. Ive felt like this my entire life and I now have the space to explore who I am and who I want to be.

Yesterday, I placed my first order for “feminine clothes” and I have never been more excited to try on clothes!

The biggest hurdle will be finding the confidence to go outside wearing more fem outfits. After years of wanting to shop all clothing sections in the store, I’m happy to be overwhelmed with choice.

How do I find the confidence I’m looking for? I look at various enby spaces here and elsewhere, and I see the people who share their outfits exuding so much confidence and power. I’m envious of this and I’m trying to find it in myself.

I never thought I’d have to come out again (was identifying as a cis gay man before), but this may be my actual coming out after all.

[lil-tumbles]

Coming out

Hey tumblr! I have a big announcement: I am abrosexual.

I just want to thank all of you out here on this hell site, (held together with duct tape and string), for helping me find myself. Before my friend (shoutout to @tohellwithyall ), and before tumblr, I barely knew anything about the lgbtq+ community. I knew about gays, lesbians, bisexuality, and dimly about transgender people. I had no idea about any of you others out here.

I didn’t even know about enby’s, agender people, pansexuals, intersex, aro, ace... The list goes on. I want to thank she-ra (best show ever, you need to watch it) for introducing me to the concept of nb characters, and other pronouns besides she and he. I also want to thank tohellwithyall again. She has been there or me for a year and a half, and always explains this kind of stuff to me. Lastly, I want to thank @abrosexuallearning for introducing me to the concept of abrosexuality. Thank you all so much, for being the amazing people that you are, and for opening my eyes to all this.