#on bisexuality

[toneelspeelster]

Participant quote from the study 'The positive aspects of a bisexual self-identification' in Psychology and Sexuality 1 (2) by S. Scales Rostosky, D. E. Riggle, and D. Pascale-Hague pp.131-44

[horreurscopes]

so i just very recently found out that half of my high school generation thinks i’m gay :|

so. we’re graduating this year.

and, even though i talk to a lot of people, i have a very small group of close friends, which means that a lot people know me as in, we’ve been in classes together, but don’t really know me know me. i’d like to think i’ve got this cool attitude thing going on, lol, because i’m cool like yeah (?), but i guess sometimes i come off as sorta a bitch?

i’m actually bisexual, heh.

but it’s not like i even have a girlfriend or something (because then at least it could be understandable), but i’ve got a really close girl friend with whom i spend a lot of time and we call each other baby so yeah, yay assumptions!

also once, i left my ipod on my desk and went to the restrooms and when i came back the videos section was open, where i had like, what, a video of two guys frenching? and just recently i found out that like. a lot of people know i watch gay porn, once again, yay assumptions because of that video. (i mean, c’mon. it didn’t even could be called softcore porn. pfff.) i’ve also got this really feminine figure but sometimes i dress kinda butchy, so once again, assumptions.

in my head i know that i should be laughing this off and not being upset or whatever, but i can’t help it.

here is where i get all politically correct and should say that there is nothing wrong with being gay, but i guess it comes off to being labeled something that i’m not, what really gets to me.

and it also sucks because now i know why not a single guy is interested in me (considering that i’m average-attractive? c’mon, i’m kinda hot! lol), which i shouldn’t really care about but c’mon, i’m in high school, i crave attention :|

/angsty teenager rant.

[horreurscopes]

i like good-looking boys who dress well and are well mannered and who are lean, trim, and fit with a hard body. i like boys who are aware of feelings and can hold a discussion about his dreams and hopes for the future and who can talk about art and fashion and can name more than 8 colours, knows some crafts. i like boys who are a little feminine, maybe, but i like boys nonetheless.

[horreurscopes]

i love my friends and i love how open i can be with them, don't get me wrong but lol, sometimes i feel like they forget i actually also like guys.

[emilypemily]

You guys. We are the only animal in the whole kingdom of animals #circleoflife that give a SHIT about who we bone. You had better believe that if a tiger is out in the jungle #themightyjungle and he is like, “Damn, that bird was tasty, but I sure could use a good tigerbone,” and then his tiger pal comes over and is like, “Duuuuuude, I just had the best dinner but I need to HUMP SOMETHING,” that they are not going to care who is a girl or who is a boy. They are just going to bone. If you don’t believe me, go to your local dog park and check out the humping happening over there. Those guys will straight up hump a pile of leaves.

Kristin Russo (everyoneisgay.com)