Being Alive and New Things
I’m reading a book about the Law of Attraction and like many books like this, you’re supposed to ask yourself lots of deep questions. It’s one of the reasons that I like books like this. They get you thinking in weird ways. The first question was “When Have you Felt Alive and Joyful in Your Life?” Big question, huh? TBH, I haven’t been in the greatest head space lately, so I it was hard for me to even approach that.
Yesterday, sitting in my tiny urban backyard, I sat down and thought I needed to give it a stab.
My husband came out and asked what I was working on, so I brought him in on the torture as well. For him, it was sitting on a beach, or a hike on Mt. Evans in Colorado. He asked me what my answer was. The time I flew on a trapeze. I had never felt anything like it. And the time I finished a half marathon. And yes, that amazing hike on Mt. Evans and having the fish eat out of my hand in Cancun.
So that begs the question--do you need to do something adventurous to feel that joy? I posit no. For two reasons. Looking back now, I felt that during that conversation with my husband. I just didn’t know to look for it. How did I know to look for it? Here’s how...
After that conversation, we had dinner and decided we were going to go find an urban trail that supposedly existed near our house. (long story for another time, but the cliff notes is that we need to find a place to walk for several miles uninterrupted by broken pavement). We were able to find the trailhead for the Mississippi River Trail near the St. Louis Arch. Now, it was twilight, so we knew we didn’t have much time to explore. We were only able to go about 200 yards but found such breathtaking sights. We literally had to pull ourselves away, promising we’d come back to explore the other side of that flood wall next time.
We got back into his Jeep and I turned to him and said “Joyful and Alive? Now. Right now. This.” He looked at me and said “Exactly”
Ferris Beuhler said “life moves pretty fast sometimes. If you don’t stop and look around, you might miss it.” True story, Ferris. Stop and notice the joyful and alive moments.