#openminde

[ivnoidea]

it’s easy to be open minded but it’s hard to find like minded people

[thatpeculiarwallflower]

not sure if it makes sense but yeah

its impossible to say you've never judged. we do, its kind of a habit. we'll think about it in our minds, we can't help it. but there's a difference between judging people in our minds and judging people out loud. when you judge people out loud, that shows that you are not able to restrain your judgement. sometimes when we judge someone in our minds, we kind of start thinking about it over and over and we tend to understand it better so what was once a judgement becomes something more of just a thought. but when we judge out loud and tell that person what we were thinking without even understanding the consequences or thinking about what that person has gone through, it becomes more of an insult and you will be branded an asshole. it's all about keeping those bad judgments to yourself and sharing the good ones instead - the ones we've thought about over and over again and have understood. the first step to being open minded is to understand. so don't pass bad judgments, pass good ones