Happy thoughts spell:
This spell is for helping someone think happy thoughts/be positive.
Instructions:
Take a jar, of preferred size, and draw a face on it. (This is optional, but I use it to signify that the jar represents a person’s mind/head.) Write on it the name of the target. In this case, Jar McJarface is going to think happy thoughts.
Add chips of amethyst (for balancing the mind and protecting from negative thoughts, whether from within or without) and citrine (for optimism). Add glitter and/or small gems, chamomile (to ward off negativity), sigils and symbols of happiness, and a perfume or perfume oil of your choice (since smells carry emotions).
Burn a candle of your choice on top of the jar and use the wax to seal it. Perform this ritual on a sunny day, or a sunday, during a waxing or full moon.
Tip - you could use this as a friendship mending spell or maybe to change the mind of a person about another person by adding a picture to the jar. The target (name of the jar) would think for positively about the person who’s picture it was. Come to think of it, that could make a decent self love or forgiveness spell. ^.^
Remember:
You are probably not a therapist. I mainly advocate using this spell for yourself and if you’re depressed or are suffering from any other mental illness medicine trumps magic most of the time.
How you use this spell, to effect others and yourself, is up to you but please be a conscientious practitioner when it comes to witchcraft. Sometimes people need to be sad in order to heal. Sometimes people need to be negative in order to be free thinkers.
In the use of benefitting friendships/relationships: remember that sometimes things need to run their course and end, and sometimes that hurts but that’s how we learn and grow.