#or advice

[youplush]

A complicated situation:

I always wanted Jon to have green eyes. (He currently has brown eyes)

Unfortunately I am not talented enough or brave enough to cut him open and replace his eyes. This is Jon btw ↓

What if I got another plushie of the same model, but pay someone else to replace the eyes with green ones?

Then I could transfer Jon's accessories to the new plush.

And the new plush would be the new Jon, and the old Jon would become someone else.

Is this okay?

It's essentially replacing him. Which makes me feel bad. But I know he would be more comforting if he had green eyes... (It's weird but he's based off a comfort character who is drawn with green eyes sometimes)

I thought about maybe sending my Jon to someone, having them replace his eyes, and then they could send him back. But I worry too much about him getting lost forever in the mail. So I don't really wanna do that. Or, what if he's too different after that and I don't like him anymore? :(

Do you think it's okay if I like transfer Jon's consciousness and accessories to a new plush?

I've been kinda stressed about this. :(

[swarms-of-bees]

How do we feel about the bg3 poly mod story wise? I wanna make a comic but the only run I’ve completed was with it and I don’t know how to choose who to romance if I do romance anyone. Also, enjoy a complimentary drawing of my durge :D

[bubblebugz]

i don't really share my art on here as much as i should,,, but i wanna share my bluesona i made recently,,

um here he is,,, very silly fella,,, if there's any advice or criticism someone wants to give to me do so!! it is appreciated!!

also some elements are inspired by mr one way and how he draws blue so check him out because his art is soooo cool

[ashoutinthedarkness]

Hey, real question.... (and kinda long post) anyone got tips on how to make yourself care? I'm finding it harder at the moment (for the last while) but it kinda hit me today that this isn't right bc I'm finding it extend toward food now. Where, I can't get myself to care enough to *eat* until I'm light headed. But it extended into other things first (classes, cleaning, general responsibilities). Its effected cooking for a while, but I could get fast food or make a sandwich bc I *know* im supposed to eat. I *know* that bodies need it, so I need to do it. So I was like - OK, if I cant bring myself to cook... cereal, sandwiches, take out, and then I'd cook when I could. But recently? Its gotten worse and I dont know why and I'm caring about my lack of caring?(if that makes sense?) It....its starting to scare me. It was just annoying before. Frustrating. But now? Now it's kinda scaring me bc I can't get myself to care about my future, the college classes I have left, or eating more than one meal and a snack a day, and that's.... not good. But I dont know how to fix it or work around it and I had worked so *hard* to not slide and its been years and I just.... dont know what to do bc my previous tactics aren't working and this is lasting longer than last time. so... advice would be nice

Please and thank you

TLDR - advice on how to care and make eating and doing other important things easier/doable wanted

[a-murmur-of-a-prayer]

It is just so, so depressing to still be waiting for a job. I'm so close to getting the one that would be beneficial to me, but the process has been taking SO long (I've been unemployed for almost three months). It feels silly to say, but without a job, it's as if my life has no meaning. I have no structure to my day, I live with my parents and am essentially freeloading off of them. The warm weather down here (my parents are in Texas) is probably the only thing that's saving my mental health at the moment. I have tried to put meaning into it by writing things, but it's so much harder to dredge up the motivation right now to do so. I want to cry just about every day, but my sister and my mom and my dad are all going through things and I need to help them, so I feel like I can't. Being an American, current events are stressing me out - I've connected with new people but they are not my friends that I've had for years, and I'm so beyond sad that I don't have a job that my insecurities about never having had a boyfriend don't even matter to me right now. Every day is just more of the same, and I just really hope I get an answer from the job I want because I don't know how much longer I can go on like this.

[proxythe]

junpei and shinji friendship is literally one of the funniest things in the entire world to me

[vodika-vibes]

So, the good news is that me and my family are home, the cats are mad but they're getting over it.

The bad news is that, with the exception of my husband, my stepdad, and my grandmother everyone got food poisoning from Christmas dinner last night.

Pro-tip, driving 5 hours when you kind of want to stab yourself to make it stop hurting and you have to stop at every rest stop to get sick is not fun.

I haven't eaten anything and aside from a sip of coffee and a small bottle of water, I don't have anything in my stomach. So you'd think that that would help. But it really, really isnt.