I may be first and foremost otherhearted but oh my god, the reasons the rest of the community is otherhearted feels… sad in a way, not all of them of course but hearing them want to be their kith, should have been their kith is sad, it feels like seeing a trans person who doesn’t know their trans say they should have been the other gender, that they want to be it, and yet aren’t for some reason, if they me comfortable with it and aren’t harmed by the want and it isn’t dysphoria then it’s fine but at the same time it doesn’t feel like it is, and if it is bad, then it’s ok, you can be that kith, you should get to be it (in a non-harmful way), and if you don’t want to be it, truly don’t feel like that, or worsens the problem then it’s also ok to stay otherhearted
" auugh i get this ... i wish all critters a very happy time as their kiths/kins/links/whatever they are <3 "