I saw that discussion about the hate Snowing writers are getting from some asshole anons and your comment about not writing Emma ships in your new fic got my attention. It's why I don't really venture into Snowing fic; I don't want to read about CS and I'm not sure how prevalent it is in fic. Obviously Snowing is the main ship but even as a side pair I can't read CS. What's your experience with it?
So, back when I used to ship it, it wasn’t a big deal. I noticed it was much more of a side pair and I could handle it.
Now…it is a little difficult to find Snowing fics that do not include it as a pairing. And there are many Snowing fics where Snowing is actually a side pairing while C$ is the main event. It is harder these days to find fics where it isn’t. I do think that’s because a large part of the fandom does ship it. However, I do know many who stopped around season 5 or when it was revealed that Killian killed Robert.
On the flip side, I have gotten hate/a lot of reviews for not making C$ a pairing in some of my stories. I had planned from the beginning for Swanfire to be endgame in one of my fics. It became pretty clear and I still have people asking me to make C$ endgame. It sucks. I have a Charming family one shot series and I announced I wasn’t going to be doing any Emma ships (including ones that I shipped like SF and SQ), which lead to me getting hate because I was “excluding” people.
Basically, I’ve found that the true Snowing shippers, won’t care about you doing this. They’re there for Snowing and it’s easier if Emma doesn’t have a romance, becuase it’s supposed to focus on the family anyway. Those who only ship Snowing for the “parallels” between it and C$ are going to be pissed if you don’t include them. I remember I was once prompted to write about Emma having an abusive ex who held her hostage, so I wrote about Killian doing that and got a lot of hate because it was “OOC”.
The main ones I have found who don’t write about C$ as a side pairing are myself, @loboselinaistrash, @lilacmoon83, @mystical-flute and JustMeAndMyKeyboard. Lobo and Keyboard, especially, do not include any Emma ships into their fics anymore.
Basically, you just have to find writers who either include the Emma side-pair that you prefer, doesn’t give her any at all or comes up with an OC for her (which is what I tend to do now).