@cantinotputmyname: sorry for intruding, but what are your views on sho and mob’s conflicts? Like what kind of things would cause them to have a fight? A loving relationship is great, but no relationship is without conflict.
Im making a text post bc the reply is too long lol
*rubs my hands together* okay so here's the deal. In the beginning of the relationship, disagreements mostly start from sho disappearing without a word for long periods of time and him returning like nothing happened. Now, shigeo doesnt ask sho about it bc it might be too personal and he believes sho would tell him if he wants to.
Sho doesnt tell shigeo about it bc he thought shigeo didnt care. And that's another thing. There are times sho would feel like he's carrying 70% of the relationship bc at the start of it all i see shigeo still struggling with expressing himself?? And also expressing his wants?? So he mostly lets sho take the initiative. So maybe sho would feel like he's just carrying shigeo along and he might end up thinking that shige doesnt feel the same about him. This could be where shigeo learns to be more vocal with his wants and his expectations from their relationship.
And also see, both of them could be really stubborn at times.
Both wills and resolves are strong so when they come across making a decision and they both decide on opposite things, it's hard to find a compromise until they both present their case and reason with each other. But sometimes the problem there could be sho losing his temper and storming off and that could end in them not really talking about it until circumstances brings it up again. I imagine this rarely happens bc most of the time they agree on things. But that's where they learn to really voice out their thoughts and feelings and just talk. where they learn how to accommodate each other's wants. And also for sho to keep his ego in check.
