In me discovering my voice and the ability to take up space I'm learning to complain more. Idk if that is a good thing or a bad thing. It's like flexing an atrophied muscle the more you do it, the easier it gets, the easier it gets the less you give a fuck about consequences.
I'm trying to find a balance now in vocalizing a discomfort without taking away from the joy and fun of something. I think that also comes with the people I surround myself with. If I surround myself with people who view anything as a complaint then I'm not making wise decisions about my well being am I?











