HOW I STOPPED CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME
HEY GUYS!
How are you doing? I hope more than good if not you will get there eventually. so I am listening to end game by Taylor Swift isn't it such a cool song?
I have throughout my life been kind of a people pleaser and basically all of my decisions were based on what people will think. Every time I used to fumble my words during a class speech or say something stupid or even say a grammatically incorrect sentence it used to trouble me for about at least a week.
But recently I’ve realized somethings and have started care less about what they are thinkin because, well I guess reaching to care nothing at all is still very far. HERE ARE SOMETHINGS THAT HELPED ME-
1) REALISING NO ONE ACTUALLY CARES
Well I know this isn't something new but this thing has really helped me. Realizing that people are too busy with their own problems and too busy to judge me cause basically they don't care at all. Telling this to myself have helped to reduce my stress and overthinking about others.
2) WOULD IT MATTER AT THE END OF MY LIFE
When I think about it that way that at the end of my life would it actually matter what others thought of me, its a no brainer of course! lets think it that way I don't want to have regrets at the end of my life of all the opportunities I gave up which could’ve been the best experiences of my life because I thought about the thinking of others.
3) STOP PLEASING
The basic reason why we care of what others think is because we want to please people but when we stop pleasing the ones who don't even have an important place in our lives we eventually stop caring about others .
so I hope all of it was helpful, I will end by the quote of the day-
LOVE ALWAYS,
LUNA!