#panwithpots

[whoneedssexed]

Hypoglycemic shock anon; if you're finding yourself feeling like that a lot, you may well have a condition called hypoglycemia. The test for it is somewhat unpleasant, but if you want advice drop me a message and I can help out!

[whoneedssexed]

I'll admit, before your response I wasn't the least bit uncomfortable, but I hadn't considered the possibility of grooming. Thankyou for helping me to adjust my thinking.

I’m glad I helped, it’s relieving to hear!

- damegreywulf

[musashi]

Hi! You've probably got 10,000 asks telling you this, but "screwing" means fucking or having sex with. It's a derogatory term to do with objectifying vaginas, a lot of people don't know its a swear though. Thought I'd explain :)

well yeah, i know, but like... to ‘screw something up’ just means that you messed it up. that you ruined it somehow. it was super weird for me to be 12 years old and suddenly have something i said all the time be considered a swear when no one had mentioned it before.

[whoneedssexed]

I suppose that's true, and considering how badly society misleads us on chromosomes and hormones and how they work I could well have been completely mislead there. Also, my apologies for my blatant cissexism, it was unintentional.

That’s all right! I’ve seen you around, so I knew it was an accident, but I wouldn’t be doing my job if I didn’t mention it for others.

- damegreywulf

[whoneedssexed]

On the "women can't get strong" point; we can totally be mega strong compared to our weight and size, but biology is against us. The shape of our joints hinders powerlifting and running, and higher estrogen levels hinder muscle growth.

That’s assuming all women are built the same and have the same biology, including all being DFAB. This also assumes “biological gender” science is inherently valid rather than inherently suspect (something I touched upon in the original post).

- damegreywulf

[readyset-id]

Leaf for Quin

What is your name / what Q may know you by: My Name’s Hazel, although Quin probably knows me as panwithpots which is my URL.

How you and Q met:  I followed Quin about a year ago, shortly after I was diagnosed with PoTS and told I had a high risk for JHS or Ehlers-Danlos, neither of which have developed as of yet (thankfully!) Quins blog made me laugh, and I absolutely fell in love with how cute and funny they were and how much they ship Wolfstar. We’ve been mutuals since…. maybe November last year?

Say a little about yourself, prominent traits, interests, etc.:

I’m demisexual, polyamory, and grey-aromantic, Quin and I have a lot of long conversations about this :3 We’ve bonded a lot over the fact that I’m a physically disabled and mentally ill spoonie, and we’ve talked a lot about how Quins bipolar is similar and different to that of my partner, Craig’s. I’ve started captioning things when I can because of Quin, and we share interests in music, Harry Potter, and lots of other things. I really like videogames and aesthetic posts too, and I study a lot and post loads of pretty pictures of food. And I miss them very very much, even though we only talked every 3 weeks or so. <3

A memory you like of Q or of you and Q:

Fangirling over Wolfstar, being spoonie buddies, and me deciding that the ship name for you(Arbi) and Quin should be “arbin” because u r both bins. Big ol’ cute trashcans.  There are too many good memories to talk about and I’m getting kind of teary trying to summarise a years worth of comradeship in a short paragraph ahhhhhh

[fairysharkmother]

Actually, to correct your answer; for the anti-sex anon, that's sex-repulsion and again totally normal. Asexuality is when you don't experience sexual attraction to individuals, and that's also normal and okay, but slightly different.

Oh, sorry! Thanks for the correction!

[wafflestheasianyenbear]

Deposited a little waffles for you :3

Awesome!! I can’t wait :)