before i start i would like to mention that toby has had another callout here and he has also gotten a callout from @/farmworld thats been deleted.
its important to note that im younger than toby so im not “ganging up” on him because im older and i have nothing better to do, he is seriously a threat to his victims and people deserve to know the situation with him.
warning for suicide baiting, attempted suicide, sexual abuse and a bunch of general bad things
keep in mind theres a lot more hes done that i didnt include because he deletes a lot of his posts frequently and what i do claim i do have evidence for
if i included your name and you didnt want to be mentioned just pm me and ill take care of it
racism
(i am white so if i overstep in this section please let me know, and i will apologize and edit the callout accordingly.)
toby is mixed (1/4 e. asian) and he has appropriated aave and when called out on it, these happened
he deleted the reblog but he said that he would only listen to people who would explain it to him “nicely”
this is him jumping on someone telling him to educate himself
he accused a black person of racefaking when he had no place to do that and when called out on it he misgendered eadric and tried to play it off as a “joke” (which he also did when he was called out for sexual abuse)
gross things
hes been harassing witchysystem for a while now
he also tends to twist things into a sexual nature without tagging it even though hes been called out for behavior like this
faking suicide
i wasnt sure if i wanted to put this in because of how sensitive the subject of suicide is but hes been making fun and accusing one of his victims of faking suicide so
he deleted the posts but a while back he “attempted” suicide by taking a whole bottle of aspirin, then said he had puked up a lot of blood
then when an anon confronted him about faking he did his thing
guilt tripping + manipulation
here is a post with screenshots made about him being manipulative in the past, when he was @/amiibo
he told one of his victims to kill themselves which is really really gross
the next few screenshots i got from a friend but the context is hes been harassing a kid on tumblr (lets call him mac) and drove mac to attempt.
he straight up admits to not wanting to apologize or attempt to change and the “sexual abuser nastiness” wasnt a joke and he knows it. this is a textbook guilt trip
mac didnt do anything to him yet toby publicly makes fun of him even after his suicide attempt
he also accused him of faking his attempt with literally no evidence to prove so
he also found macs vent blog and sent it to his friend with 3k+ followers and forced mac to deactivate because of the way toby and the gang are
then theres this.........mess
“i admit the latter and will never use aave again” is bullshit because he still continues to use aave and refuses admit hes wrong
more guilt tripping.
these are messages from mac to me about the situation
(“it” is the gore that toby accused him of sending btw)
he sent me this from the hospital which is why he doesnt have that much physical evidence
heres his “apology” which is him playing victim and shaming his victims for leaving him, making claims with no evidence
i approached an ex friend of his and it showed me these screenshots of him being ignorant and guilt trippy
and this was how he treated his partners
in conclusion, toby doesnt seem like he wants to change and has never apologized for his shitty behavior. he crytypes about being the victim and humiliates his victims for being mad at him for hurting them. he refuses to apologize or admit hes in the wrong and hasnt changed. toby has hurt so many people, and i dont want to see it happen again.
toby, if youre reading this, i hope you grow the fuck up and learn to grow and apologize before it really bites you in the ass.
please reblog this too many people have been hurt by toby and people deserve to know whats going on
alright so on my Snapchat there was a post of me asking one of my crushes to shove a refrigerator up my ass killing me instantly and then I asked my crush to add me. I forgot that I posted that and he got mad at me because of it. Do you have any advice
yes. don;t ask people to shove refrigerators up your ass