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Children who are responsible and fun to be around!
Children who are responsible and fun to be around!
Cleaning Up Your Mess* by Ron Huxley, LMFT Every parent wants a child that is “responsible and fun to be around”. Children will enjoy being this way too. Unfortunately, traumatized children forget who they are and believe a lie instead. Trauma introduces the believe that the world is a scary place, caregivers can’t be trusted and I am broken and damaged goods. No one could love me…People will get…
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Parents have to be invested in creating a culture of celebration, creativity and hope in the next generation. When parents wake up their hearts need to beat wth the urgency to empower their children and instill values of perseverance, positivity and generosity. This can’t and won’t happen unless parents model it and rearrange their schedules to make sure this is allowed in the home. Change the atmosphere you and your children breath if you want them to have, inside of them, the things you say you want them to be and do!
Parents need to stop thinking about how to "fix" their children's behavior problems and begin to look at how to "re-source" them instead. Stop trying to stop tantrums or talking back and start re-connecting them to the source of the problems. What is your child needing that he or she cannot get or getting that he or she doesn't want? Decode and recode your children to add social skills, self-soothing, understanding, competence, attention, love, affection, security that is driving the behaviors in the first place.
It is time to put away punishment and use discipline which is to disciple or teach/guide a child to appropriate behaviors. The goal is not "stop irritating mommy" today but learn to live life successfully tomorrow! You can never deal with a negative by using a negative and expect a positive outcome.
Visualize who and what your child is becoming and connect them to that source of choice-making, problem-solving, character.
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All parents have experienced the classical power struggle with their child over a toy they want, chore they don't want, and a long list of things you want them to do. The subject matter doesn't matter but what does is how you keep your power intact. The word "no" is a powerful tool that most parents misuse. I would suggest using it on a 70/30 split where you say "no" 30 percent of the time. That means you are going to have to find acceptable ways to say "yes" which could be challenging. If you find enough micro-yesses in your day, your child will perceive you more as a loving gift-giver versus the big meany who says "no" all the time. Using this word more judiciously will make it more powerful.
