“The outside world”
Per-Dev Journal Entry #4: dealing with the challenges of adolescence stage
Being the eldest of all, daughter and grand daughter, the pressure is great since all them (my relatives) are looking up to me. Achieving nothing is like being a trash in our home. I cannot describe exactly what my family thinks but it really feels heavy that it can cause me so much stress. In the long run, as I get mature, I realized that it’s you who will be enjoying the path you will take and it’s you who will be riding the roller coaster experience of life.
Basic adulting is hard when you have no one beside you to talk things over. I'm not the type of person who communicates with my family even with the smallest achievement of myself. I just keep everything in me. Indeed, adolescent is the stage of being torn between adulting and teenager feels. It's really hard to motivate yourself alone but relying and leaning on to the wisdom of God always helps. It helps a lot! The importance of getting into experiences, challenges and mixed emotions is that you know how to handle things and situations while growing up. Always take these as a step on making yourself armored by the things that will come may it be in the worst or best smash. As the song goes “you can never be too happy in this life”, just embrace, adjust and make the most out of life of course according to God's will.
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