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[unafrodisiaque]

I, an ESFP-T is surrounded by INFJs (supposedly very rare).

Why?

Why do I attract these people?

You intimidate me and yet I’m irresistibly drawn to you.

Why?

[personamaiden]

Poem Thought Process

So I was working on a haiku poem for a contest on Personality Cafe just a bit ago, and thought I’d document my thought process while I remembered it.

So I read about the contest, thought, “Oh I can do that!” (have already studied a bit on haiku, even written a couple) -starts thinking of ideas-. So I do a bit of research, just to make sure I remembered the format of haiku right. -starts contemplating for real now-. -thinks- “Flowers, no, that’s more spring, snowflake. No! Don’t want to write about winter. Hmm, something summer like, sun, heat, this sounds good,” -keeps thinking-. “Children in swim tubes, nah, flowers again, nope, too springy. Bees, like it.” “Snowflake again, No, go away!” -ponders over how to structure bees in the line-. “Hope, really want to include this in” -Writes and erases ideas-, finally finishes-. Yeah, so there was my overall process, as best as I can remember it (already becoming a bit fuzzy on the order of thought, but the main concept is there). That was only a less then 30 minute gap between finishing and writing this too. XD

[yeunginfp]

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[yeunginfp]

To wear or not to wear, is it really a question?????

[weirdfella]

Enneagram Type NINE: The Peacemaker

(Also known as “The Mediator”)

by Timeless (source: Personality Cafe)

I. Introduction to the Enneagram of Personality The Enneagram of Personality is a personality classification system comprised of nine types. Each one of these nine types represents a distinct set of motivations, fears, desires and virtues. This article (and the other articles in this series) are designed to present each of the nine types in an understandable and comprehensive way. Many of you are no doubt familiar with the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, as it is the most popular personality instrument discussed on PersonalityCafe. The Enneagram is a fantastic compliment to the MBTI test because the Enneagram deals with core motivations, while MBTI deals with information processing. When taken together, MBTI and Enneagram can provide an accurate description of an individual's personality. These articles are intended to describe each Enneagram type from the ground up, starting with the most fundamental motivations of that type and moving up to how those motivations are expressed in the real world. II. Quick Facts about Type Nine These facts will be described throughout the article. Holy Idea: Love Vice: Indifference Virtue: Serenity Enneagram Triad: Body (Anger Fixation) Hornevian Triad: Withdrawn Harmonic Triad: Positive Outlook Basic Drive: Peace Basic Fear: Loss and Annihilation Basic Desire: Stability and Peace of Mind Freudian Association: Ego III. Type Nine Description Everyone is alone, but we're all alone together. This statement is implicitly acknowledged by all the Enneagram types, and each type has a unique way of dealing with it. Type Nine is characterized by a desire to see peace in both themselves and in the world around them, hence the moniker “peacemaker” or “mediator.” The “Holy Idea” of Type Nine is love, a word that is so often used but so rarely analyzed. In this context, it does not refer to romantic love, it refers to a general sense of affection and appreciation. In Enneagram theory, a Type Nine individual is naturally sensitive to the concept of love (their Holy Idea) from a young age, which leads them to develop the traits normally associated with Type Nine in later years. As a Type Nine individual becomes more accustomed to the world, they are presented with the reality that things just aren't going to go smoothly. The ideal mental state of a Nine would be one of serenity and contemplation, but the world does not give up its conflict easily. The solution is for the Nine to withdraw from one's self and get absorbed in the outside world. At the same time, they are likely to seek peace in their endeavors, as it challenges the serenity they associate with love. But not all conflict is in the outside world; conflict exists in the inner world as well. Type Nine individuals are confronted with conflicting emotions, thoughts and desires, just like any type. There may be a great deal of tension between what the Id wants (the basic drive for immediate gratification) and what the Superego wants (the code of morality and ethics learned in childhood). Type Nine deals with this conflict by looking outside of themselves, ignoring it wherever possible, and focusing on the world around them. Type Nine is a body type, which means that they are primarily concerned with the relation between themselves and the world around them. In this case, Nines can see their inner world as dull and thus focus on the observing the beauty of the outer world in order to compensate for that. The behaviors that Type Nines exhibit are defined, in part, by where they end up focusing their attention. Some Type Nines (usually on the more unhealthy side) will preoccupy their thoughts with “time waster” pursuits and can appear to be lazy. But some Type Nines will focus their energy on other people, becoming very active in the lives of others. In that case, they can be extremely helpful and attentive. In either case, the Nine wants to get out of themselves because they may see their inner world as dull. Interestingly, this is why most Nines are really Extroverts, despite being considered a withdrawn type. When stressed, Type Nines can become jaded, detaching from themselves and others, while become disinterested and bored with life. At their best, though, Type Nines can become engaged and self-confident. Ultimately, the title of Peacemaker for Type Nine is appropriate. Type Nine wants to maintain a sense of peace and serenity in whatever field they concentrate, whether that be with intimate relations, between individuals, and even in their own leisurely pursuits. IV. Developmental Progression of Type Nine Early in life, the Type Nine is sensitive to the concept of love (appreciation for the world in general, both themselves and others.) The material world (life) corrupts this ideal into the delusion that they should focus their appreciation on the external world. This leads to the idea that the Nine's inner world is dull, because the exterior world is so complex. The Nine relies on indifference to maintain the illusion that their inner concerns aren't really a problem. The Nine’s virtue, serenity leads them to their growth point of Three, as it allows the Nine to become more in tune with their inner desires and thoughts. V. Wings Enneagram theorists quickly discovered that each Enneagram type can have traits of the types around it. This is called “wing theory”, and while some theorists dispute the finer points of it, it's generally agreed that each type has a connection to the types around it and one of these connections will be dominant. For example, Type Two is surrounded by Types One and Three. Someone could therefore be a Two with a One Wing (Two as their main type with some Type One traits), or a Two with a Three Wing (Two as their main type with some Type Three traits.) The notation for this is 2w1 and 2w3, respectively. It is generally held that one wing is more dominant than the other; while you may have traits of both wings, one is more pronounced. Some believe that you can have balanced (equal) wings, but this Enneagram type description operates under the “dominant wing” theory, which is the most prevalent in the Enneagram community. Type Nine shares wings with Type Eight and Type One. Type Nine with an Eight Wing: Type Nine is normally associated with serenity and contemplation, while Type Eight is associated with pushy aggressiveness. This combination is sometimes described as paradoxical, but it actually makes perfect sense, as long as we keep in mind that serenity and aggression are secondary consequences of the core motivations of Nine and Eight. Type Nine wants to detach from their own world and find fulfillment in the world around them, or the world of others. Type Eights are hyper-aware of the boundaries between themselves and others and will react aggressively if those borders are crossed harmfully. 9w8s, therefore, want to extend themselves into the outside world while simultaneously protecting themselves from harm. 9w8s tend to want to do their own thing, and will react aggressively if that is threatened, but their modus operandi is to wander throughout the world at their own direction and anyone who wants to tell them what to do can haul off. 9w8s can also be incredibly protective of their friends, because the 9 component lets them “merge” with others and the 8 component takes an attack on friends as a personal attack. (Contrast this with Type 1 – Type 1 will act aggressively in that situation because they perceive the enemy as “wrong”, Type 9w8 will act aggressively because they see their friends as part of themselves.) Type Nine with a One Wing: Type One is associated with self-critical, perfectionist, and moralistic/idealistic tendencies. Some of those elements are present in a Nine with a One wing. 9w1s are more likely to repress their anger than a 9w8. 9w1s have a hard time expressing their personal needs and wants, so resentment might build up until it explodes. 9w1s who are particularly socially-oriented may put great efforts into understanding what other people want, and if other people do not show that same level of dedication, they might feel marginalized. 9w1s, though, are usually very uncomfortable with their own anger and might try to deny it or channel it into other things instead of confronting it head-on. 9w1s tend to be more open to others than a 9w8 and is liable to place a premium on the well-being of others. 9w1s are far more gentle than a 9w8 and they tend to be good team players. Out of all the types in the Enneagram, 9w1 is probably the most peaceful. VI. Growth and Stress Arrows One theme in the study of the Enneagram is interconnectivity. Each type is distinct, but it does not stand alone. We discussed Wings earlier, which shows how a type can have traits of the types next to it. Another example of interconnectivity are stress and growth arrows. When an individual is in a state of stress or growth, they can take on traits of other types. There is some disagreement within the Enneagram community as to what precipitates a stress or growth condition, but I believe that the most logical interpretation of this is that a type becomes stressed when they succumb to their vice, while a type grows when they are following their virtue. Following a vice is a natural response, as it is the easy way out. Virtues are risky because they cause a person to confront their “dark sides” or fears and may result in a radical reassessment of one's thoughts and actions. Nevertheless, the Enneagram is a system of personal growth and the stress/growth arrow dynamic reflects that, as it embodies the concept that transcendence is hard work, and it's always darkest before the dawn. This is also in line with the overarching theme that the Nine types are basically just different means of perceiving reality, and no type is more correct than any other. Growth Arrow to Type Three: Type Threes are self-assured, energetic and sometimes quite aggressive. Type Nine individuals, as they become more confident and centered, take on these traits of a Type Three. Type Nines are often neglectful about details in their own life. They may find their own life to be sort of dull. However, as they grow, Nines become more engaged in their own lives. Type Nine is not normally suited toward the high-powered, active nature of the Three. While a Nine is inclined to lay back and watch the world around them, Threes want to make their mark on the world. But as Type Nine develops, they come out of their shell and “wake up”, whilst simultaneously becoming more active with the world around them. Stress Arrow to Type Six: Unhealthy Sixes develop a great deal of stress and anxiety, and a Nine can move in that direction when they are stressed. Nines are normally laidback, but that also makes the Nine vulnerable to a sense of powerlessness that can create feelings of helplessness and despair. In that case, the Nine would withdraw into themselves and can “shut down” due to anxiety. VII. Type Nine Variants Self-Preservation Nines can be very cautious. They tend to form fewer social connections than the other variants, but when they do, they want them to be pain-free and smooth. Social Nines are very concerned with the connections and bonds between members of their social group. This makes them important for group cohesion, as they'll often want to settle out disputes between group members. Sexual Nines tend to focus their energies on close personal relations, whether intimate or otherwise. They see one-on-one personal relationships as one means to achieving inner harmony. VIII. Comparison within Triads Within the Head/Body/Image Triads: Head: These types are primarily concerned with their own thoughts. Image: These types take action when it comes to their image, which they equate with reality. Body: These types focus on the border between themselves and the world around them. Within the body triad… (Compared to Eight) Although Nines may certainly engage in conflict, they wouldn't approve of it or enjoy it like an Eight. One of the biggest misconceptions about Type Nine is that Nines must be passive and peaceful all the time. This isn't the case. Nines can indeed be assertive, although it would not necessarily be an enjoyable experience. (Compared to One) Ones are self-critical and uptight, while Nines are more relaxed. Within the image triad… (Compared to Two) While Nines may seek approval from others like Two, it isn't a core drive for them. Nines prefer to get along with people, but they don't require other people to like them. (Compared to Three) Threes are more aggressive about achieving success than a Nine. Nines are less likely to feel proud about their own accomplishments than a Three would. (Compared to Four) Nines do not feel the fundamental alienation from others that a Four feels. Nines can engage others much more easily than a Four. Within the head triad… (Compared to Five) Fives will generally keep other people at arm's reach, while a Nine is less likely to do that. Fives are naturally cautious, recognizing the danger that other people (and the world in general) will present. Nines are generally not aware of such a danger; in fact, they feel more comfortable in the “outside world” than in the “inside world.” (Compared to Six) Nines do not feel the same kind of stress and anxiety that a Six would feel. Type Six individuals tend to be aware of all the different “worst case scenarios”, which can produce a great deal of anxiety. Nines are generally more optimistic. (Compared to Seven) Nines are not as expressive of their own desires as a Seven. In fact, Nines may have a hard time vocalizing what they need while a Seven is likely to be pushy about it. Nines may also feel bad about pushing for what they want, while a Seven is used to it. Within the Hornevian triads: The Hornevian triads describe how each type copes with a situation. They were originally developed by psychologist Karen Horney. Aggressive: In this context, “aggressive” means “action-oriented.” It doesn't mean belligerence. Type Three – Takes action to gain success. Type Seven – Takes action to keep engaged in interesting activities. Type Eight - Takes action to secure more resources and to continue to consume. Withdrawn: Type Four – Withdraws to protect themselves from being absorbed into the crowd; to maintain their uniqueness. Type Five – Withdraws to defend themselves and to get a better/clearer view of the situation. Type Nine – Withdraws to maintain peace. Compliant: In this context, these types are compliant to their superegos. It doesn't mean that they are pushovers. Type One – Complies with the superego because they will feel corrupt if they don't. Type Two – Complies with the superego because they will feel useless if they don't. Type Six – Complies with the superego because they will feel insecure if they don't. Within the Harmonic triads: The Harmonic triads describe the primary problem-solving skill employed by each type. Positive Outlook: Type Two – Twos focus on their own goodness and virtue. Type Seven – Sevens adopt an “it doesn't affect me” mentality. Type Nine – Nines focus on the “silver lining” in a situation instead of negative aspects. Competency: Type One – Ones must be competent to maintain their set of ethics. Type Three – Threes must be competent to avoid challenges to their success. Type Five – Fives must be competent to survive in the “outer world.” Reactive: Type Four – Fours may take things very personally, which makes them very emotionally intense. Type Six – Sixes are observant of their world and react accordingly. Type Eight – Eights are quick to react to challenges and to assert their boundaries. IX. Enneagram and MBTI Interaction The Enneagram describes motivations, while the MBTI describes modes of information processing. It would stand to reason that MBTI is subordinate to Enneagram, as the Enneagram deals with more basic motivations. Imagine that two people want to tell the same story, but one is a writer and one is a musician. One will write a book while the other will write a song but both have the same origin point. So let’s look at each type and how that form of information processing would appear when directed by the primary motivation of Type Nine. Extroverted Sensation Types (ESTP and ESFP) Extroverted Sensation is associated with a strong connection to the “present moment” and places an emphasis on practicality in life. Instead of concentrating on abstract plans, ESxP Nines enjoy the “simple pleasures” in life and are generally very practical people. They can be laidback and creative individuals who naturally get along with others. Their practicality can lead to a sense of humbleness that makes them unusually easy to get along with. Extroverted Intuition Types (ENTP and ENFP) Extroverted Intuition is essentially the opposite of Extroverted Sensing: instead of focusing on present information, Extroverted Intuition brainstorms a myriad number of possibilities that may or may not be true. ENxP Nines are inventive in the pursuit of activities outside their inner world. If they are more Social, then they are more likely to channel this into encouraging support for others. Otherwise, they can direct their energies toward creativity in a different venue. Either way, they generally like to avoid conflict and are typically very pleasant and passionate people. Extroverted Thinking Types (ENTJ, ESTJ) Extroverted Thinking breaks a process down into its logical components and checks it for logical consistency. Extroverted Thinking Nines have a sense of how the world “fits” together yet they lack an aggressive attitude. Extroverted Thinking is stereotypically associated with a desire to control others, but that isn't the case. In fact, an ExTJ Nine would have little desire to domineer over people, but rather to work alongside people with their talents. Extroverted Feeling Types (ENFJ, ESFJ) Extroverted Feeling refers to an awareness of the emotions or hidden beliefs of another, but does not necessarily imply that an Fe-dominant person must bend to those emotions. ExFJ Nines are some of the most caring people out there. The natural Nine tendency to ignore one's own needs combined with the Extroverted Feeling awareness of other people's unspoken desires means that the ExFJ Nine can easily forget that they have needs at all. Introverted Sensation Types (ISTJ, ISFJ) Introverted Sensation types tend to use their experience to guide them; Si dominant Type Nines can share a similar practicality to the ESxJ Nines, although they tend to be more withdrawn than ESxJ Nines. Introverted Intuition Types (INTJ, INFJ) Ni-Dominant types tend to have brilliant insights into “what’s going on”, although they do so in different ways. INTJ Nines tend to be more detached from others, and may occupy their desire to get outside of themselves with pursuits that engage their mind. INFJ Nines, on the other hand, may use their insight to better integrate themselves with others. Introverted Thinking Types (INTP, ISTP) Introverted Thinking types (IxTP) emphasize the particular meanings of words and how each individual piece fits together within a concept. Introverted Thinking Type Nines can be the most introverted MBTI/Enneagram combinations, because they use their internal thought processes to detach from their core needs. They may spend so much time wrapping themselves up in complex thought processes that they do not have much time for the outer world. This can be said about IxTP Fives as well, but IxTP Nines are less likely to assert themselves than Fives. IxTP Nines would be happy enough on their own, to explore their thoughts without needing to be pushy about it. Introverted Feeling Types (INFP, ISFP) Introverted Feeling types are concerned more about the essence of a particular subject than the gritty particulars. (This is the opposite for Introverted Thinking types.) As a result, an IxFP Nine may be more extroverted than an IxTP Nine because they aren't getting as bogged down by the details. They tend to be easygoing and appreciative of the world around them. An IxFP Nine is very apt to see the beauty in everything. X. Paths to Security Type One - “I will be secure if I'm perfect.” Type Two - “I will be secure if I'm loved, appreciated or respected.” Type Three - “I will be secure if I am successful.” Type Four - “I will be secure if I am unique.” Type Five - “I will be secure if I withdraw from harm.” Type Six - “I will be secure if I am always aware of danger.” Type Seven - “I will be secure if I can plan for the future.” Type Eight - “I will be secure if I can control the world around me.” Type Nine - “I will be secure if I have peace.” XI. Freudian Association From my article, “The Freudian Theory of Enneagram” Type 9: Ego Mediator. Basic Fear: To be lost, to be annihilated. Basic Desire: To have stability and peace of mind. Agency: Ego The ego is the rational mediator between id, superego, and the outside world. Type 9 individuals focus their energy on this ego function, making them the regulators of their own mind. They want every facet to mesh well, and their ideal state is one of inner harmony as the id, superego and outside world coexist within them perfectly. You could think of the Type 9 as loving balance: they want to make sure their id is not too pushy, and their superego isn't demanding too much, and the outside world is minding their place. If one or more elements becomes out of balance, the Type 9 can get paranoid and suspicious like an unhealthy 6 because they lost the harmony that they invested so much in. The Type 9 is often called "the mediator" because they seek to eliminate threats to their harmony within their universe, and this sometimes entails settling disputes with other people. But look at the word "mediator" in a broad sense: they want to mediate their inner world, and sometimes they mediate things in the outer world because of it. The Type 9 is probably the best representation of the ego in the enneagram. It's my opinion that the purest form of love is created by the ego, and that shines through in the Type 9. To Encourage Integration: Be selective about what you do; don't put yourself in situations that will unbalance you. You want to meet and maintain your ideal inner harmony. To Avoid Disintegration: In tough situations, don't let the stress paralyze you. Because Type 9s are constantly mediating their id, superego and the outside world, they may succumb to simply "shutting down" when it gets too hard. Don't withdraw like that; power through it. Type 9 Wings: Type 9 with an 8 Wing (Ego-Id): The 9w8 has a slight id edge that makes them assertive and powerful like a Type 8. However, their aggressive tendencies are looked at in the light of maintaining harmony: they are only going to act like an 8 when it's to maintain the inner peace. Type 9w8s in difficult situations can often mistype as Type 8s because of this. Type 9 with a 1 Wing (Ego-Superego): The 9w1 has elements of the superego Type 1 in their personality. They embrace the ego ideal of being calm and collected and tend to back off in a conflict. They are more likely to solve a situation by withdrawing instead of fighting, like a 9w8 would. This makes the 9w1 generally more apt to solve interpersonal problems between other people than a 9w8. “The only journey is the journey within.” - Rainer Maria Rilke

[weirdfella]

Enneagram Type EIGHT: The Challenger

(Also known as “The Survivalist”)

by Timeless (source: Personality Cafe)

I. Introduction to the Enneagram of Personality The Enneagram of Personality is a personality classification system comprised of nine types. Each one of these nine types represents a distinct set of motivations, fears, desires and virtues. This article (and the other articles in this series) are designed to present each of the nine types in an understandable and comprehensive way. Many of you are no doubt familiar with the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, as it is the most popular personality instrument discussed on PersonalityCafe. The Enneagram is a fantastic compliment to the MBTI test because the Enneagram deals with core motivations, while MBTI deals with information processing. When taken together, MBTI and Enneagram can provide an accurate description of an individual's personality. These articles are intended to describe each Enneagram type from the ground up, starting with the most fundamental motivations of that type and moving up to how those motivations are expressed in the real world. II. Quick Facts about Type Eight These facts will be described throughout the article. Holy Idea: Innocence/Truth Vice: Lust Virtue: Magnamity Enneagram Triad: Body (Associated Emotion: Anger) Hornevian Triad: Aggressive Harmonic Triad: Reactive Basic Drive: Survival Basic Fear: Being harmed or controlled Basic Desire: To be independent and in control Freudian Association: Id (Subconscious gratification drive) III. Type Eight Description Animalistic “laws of nature” are coded into the human psyche, particularly in the subconscious Id, which is the seat of many primal impulses. These laws of nature hold that the strong survive and the weak perish, and to survive, one must always be at the top of the food chain. The foundation of a Type Eight personality is a strong connection to these “laws of nature.” From a Freudian perspective, this is because the Type Eight spends a large part of their mental energy on satisfying certain survival impulses of the Id. From the perspective of cognitive behavioral psychology, a Type Eight believes (for whatever reason, perhaps early development) that the primal survival need is their most treasured asset. In Enneagram theory, each type has a Holy Idea from which all other traits flow. Type Eight’s “Holy Ideas” are Truth and Innocence. The Holy Idea determines which type a person ultimately grows into; if they are particularly in-tune with the notion of innocence, over time they develop a delusion that no one is innocent, thus justifying cutthroat behavior. It's every man for themselves in the Eight's world. This foundation ensures that the Eight is within the body triad. The body triad is focused on all the minutiae regarding where “I” end and “You” begin. Conflict is a necessary part of that. For the Eight, it’s themselves against the world. There is a clear border between the Eight and the rest of the world, and that border must be protected. 8w9 and 8w7 protect that border in different ways, but that’s discussed later in this article. The Type Eight basic drive is to survive and the basic fear is to be harmed or controlled. After all, to be controlled is to essentially be an animal caught in a trap, waiting for someone to come along and finish the job. For that reason, Eights will resist almost any attempt to control them. (Weak attempts may fall off the radar as something not worth dealing with.) But as a society, we do not live in the world of the Id. Society doesn’t allow us to set out bear traps for other people (well, most societies) and so the behaviors of the Eight are channeled into other activities. This is why Eights tend to gravitate toward positions of power, particularly in business or social settings. Even if the position has no apparent survival value, the subconscious drive to control (lest the Eight be controlled themselves) drives them to become the authority in a situation. Harkening back to the animalistic nature of the Id, the Type Eight relies on intuitive action (gut reactions, not MBTI intuitiveness) to operate. There’s no time to think it out when you’re in the middle of a crossfire on the battlefield, so an Eight will naturally go with their first reaction. This is another reason why Type Eight is in the Body Triad, not the Head Triad. For example, while Type Five will plan things out while Type Eight will just do it. The vice of Type Eight is lust. But not necessarily sexual lust; this can encompass the desire for any number of things, such as food or money. You can think of a “vice”, at least in the context of the Enneagram, as representing an illusory means of pursuing the basic drive. For Type Eights, the basic drive is survival. Acting in a lusty way gives the illusion of survival; consuming mass amounts of food or possessing great wealth gives, at least temporarily, the appearance that they are winning the battle for survival. This is a major motivation for Type Eight; they want to consume and expand their control. This gives Type Eights an ego that is generally unmatched in the Enneagram. They like to see themselves as powerful, influential and self-sufficient. Morality wise, a Type Eight would say they have integrity instead of a strong moral code. They would likely view strong moral codes as weak if they are too out of touch with reality. Morality is a core superego function and as an id type, a Type Eight would have a hard time internalizing that. The virtue of Eight is magnanimity, which represents judicious use of their power. As they gain a deeper understanding of themselves, they realize that there is a right time and a wrong time for their aggression. This helps free them from their fundamental delusion that they must always be expanding their realm of power; as Daniel Webster once said, “Liberty consists in wholesome restraint.” With that restraint, Eights realize their liberty. IV. Developmental Progression of Type Eight Early in life, the Type Eight is sensitive to Innocence and Truth. The material world (life) corrupts this ideal into the delusion that no one is innocent and thus conflict is naturally acceptable because everyone must understand conflict on some level. The Eight relies on lust to give the illusion of survival. The Eight’s virtue, magnanimity (nobility, willingness to face danger, beyond petty anger) leads them to their growth point of Two. Ironically, it would appear that magnanimity would hurt an Eight... but in the end, it is required for an Eight to develop as a person. V. Wings Enneagram theorists quickly discovered that each Enneagram type can have traits of the types around it. This is called “wing theory”, and while some theorists dispute the finer points of it, it's generally agreed that each type has a connection to the types around it and one of these connections will be dominant. For example, Type Two is surrounded by Types One and Three. Someone could therefore be a Two with a One Wing (Two as their main type with some Type One traits), or a Two with a Three Wing (Two as their main type with some Type Three traits.) The notation for this is 2w1 and 2w3, respectively. It is generally held that one wing is more dominant than the other; while you may have traits of both wings, one is more pronounced. Some believe that you can have balanced (equal) wings, but this Enneagram type description operates under the “dominant wing” theory, which is the most prevalent in the Enneagram community. Type Eight shares wings with Type Seven and Type Nine. Remember the discussion of borders from the earlier section? Both 8w7 and 8w9 seek to protect their border with the outside world, but they do it in different ways. Type Eight with a Seven Wing: 8w7s are more likely to favor offense over defense, using preemptive strikes to keep people away from striking the metaphorical (and physical) barrier between themselves and the outside world. 8w7s like to expand aggressively, and they want to make sure others know it. They tend to flaunt their toughness, even subconsciously, to signal a warning to possible challengers. Type Eight with a Nine Wing: 8w9s are more likely to set up a border, make it clear, and respond with overwhelming force if someone dares to cross. They tend to be practical, down-to-earth, and generally they don't look for fights. However, if one starts, they will gladly finish it. Eight with a Nine wing is sometimes called “The Bear”, because they tend to go their own way, and fight when disturbed or when they want something. They aren't as likely to push on other people like an 8w7 would. One simplistic rule of thumb is that 8w7 is offensive, 8w9 is defensive, but both are Eights and share all of the same core desires. 8w9 is not soft because it contains elements of Type Nine. Both are still equally lusty and aggressive. VI. Growth and Stress Arrows One theme in the study of the Enneagram is interconnectivity. Each type is distinct, but it does not stand alone. We discussed Wings earlier, which shows how a type can have traits of the types next to it. Another example of interconnectivity are stress and growth arrows. When an individual is in a state of stress or growth, they can take on traits of other types. There is some disagreement within the Enneagram community as to what precipitates a stress or growth condition, but I believe that the most logical interpretation of this is that a type becomes stressed when they succumb to their vice, while a type grows when they are following their virtue. Following a vice is a natural response, as it is the easy way out. Virtues are risky because they cause a person to confront their “dark sides” or fears and may result in a radical reassessment of one's thoughts and actions. Nevertheless, the Enneagram is a system of personal growth and the stress/growth arrow dynamic reflects that, as it embodies the concept that transcendence is hard work, and it's always darkest before the dawn. This is also in line with the overarching theme that the Nine types are basically just different means of perceiving reality, and no type is more correct than any other. Growth Arrow to Type Two: The Growth arrow represents a state of mind that is ultimately necessary for a type to reach, but which embodies qualities that could be a threat to that type. For example, Type Eight grows in the direction of Type Two, even though the sentimental and helpful qualities of Type Two could compromise Type Eight’s survival. One of the challenges of the Enneagram consists of identifying the best way to integrate these growth characteristics in a sustainable manner. As a Type Eight grows, they begin to push against the limits imposed upon them by the Body Triad. The bright line that used to separate them from others begins to blur and the Type Eight starts to internalize the needs of others. In effect, they begin to see others as an extension of the self. This is a common element of Type Two, which explains the Eight -> Two growth arrow. But this growth arrow has limitations. An Eight does not become a Two, but rather, can gain (somewhat superficial) aspects of a Two. Survival remains the inherent focus of an Eight, and so protection of others is often focused primarily on the survival and physical well-being of others. An Eight, even in a strong growth state, may still see some matters (such as simply being “upset”) as essentially trivial because it does not affect survival value. On the other hand, matters such as the invasion of physical space and deception are likely to be hot button issues for an Eight. Eights in a growth arrow to Two generally do not become champions for the underdog that is a quality that is more accurately attributed to Type One. Stress Arrow to Type Five: On the other hand, stress arrows tend to indicate a retreat position. An Eight normally relies on intuitive action; but not in the MBTI sense. In this case, intuitive action refers to acting on “gut reactions” and planning is less common. It is normally important for a Type Eight to maintain their momentum. However, if for some reason they are unable to maintain this momentum, they may become secretive and isolated like a Type Five. In that case, intuitive action is replaced by plotting and suspicion. A severely stressed Eight can therefore appear like a Type Five. VII. Type Eight Variants Self-Preservation Eights tend to be rugged survivalists whose top priority is physical security. The stereotypical mega-capitalist CEO is usually a Self-Preservation Eight. They like to own a great deal of property. Social Eights desire social interaction and dominance. Their lust in channeled into society and groups, which usually drives them to become the leader. Of course, their motivations for becoming the leader are generally self-protection as they resent being controlled. Sexual Eights are usually very individualistic but are more willing to sacrifice physical comfort than a Self-Preservation Eight. Sexual Eights are usually more lusty a sexual way, as they desire their partner completely and fully. There is almost a desire to absorb the partner into their sexuality. VIII. Comparison within Triads Within the Head/Body/Image Triads: Head: These types are primarily concerned with their own thoughts. Image: These types take action when it comes to their image, which they equate with reality. Body: These types focus on the border between themselves and the world around them. Within the body triad… (Compared to One) Eights may have a strong sense of integrity but lack the moral structure of a One. (Compared to Nine) Eights see their survival as paramount and thus will resist others far more than a Nine would. Within the image triad… (Compared to Two) Eights will not open themselves up like a Two would. (Compared to Three) Unlike Type Three, an Eight would be comfortable presenting a rough (unplanned) image. (Compared to Four) Eights do not see themselves as fundamentally detached from reality like a Four. In fact, Eights would see reality as something to be mastered and not something to withdraw from. Within the head triad… (Compared to Five) Eights would not plan extensively like a Five. (Compared to Six) Eights may experience anxiety but not as a core feature of their personality, like a Six. (Compared to Seven) Sevens tend to cope with an “I just don’t care” mentality, while Eights would confront a problem head on. Within the Hornevian triads: The Hornevian triads describe how each type copes with a situation. They were originally developed by psychologist Karen Horney. Aggressive: In this context, “aggressive” means “action-oriented.” It doesn't mean belligerence. Type Three – Takes action to gain success. Type Seven – Takes action to keep engaged in interesting activities. Type Eight - Takes action to secure more resources and to continue to consume. Withdrawn: Type Four – Withdraws to protect themselves from being absorbed into the crowd; to maintain their uniqueness. Type Five – Withdraws to defend themselves and to get a better/clearer view of the situation. Type Nine – Withdraws to maintain peace. Compliant: In this context, these types are compliant to their superegos. It doesn't mean that they are pushovers. Type One – Complies with the superego because they will feel corrupt if they don't. Type Two – Complies with the superego because they will feel useless if they don't. Type Six – Complies with the superego because they will feel insecure if they don't. Within the Harmonic triads: The Harmonic triads describe the primary problem-solving skill employed by each type. Positive Outlook: Type Two – Twos focus on their own goodness and virtue. Type Seven – Sevens adopt an “it doesn't affect me” mentality. Type Nine – Nines focus on the “silver lining” in a situation instead of negative aspects. Competency: Type One – Ones must be competent to maintain their set of ethics. Type Three – Threes must be competent to avoid challenges to their success. Type Five – Fives must be competent to survive in the “outer world.” Reactive: Type Four – Fours may take things very personally, which makes them very emotionally intense. Type Six – Sixes are observant of their world and react accordingly. Type Eight – Eights are quick to react to challenges and to assert their boundaries. IX. Enneagram and MBTI Interaction The Enneagram describes motivations, while the MBTI describes modes of information processing. It would stand to reason that MBTI is subordinate to Enneagram, as the Enneagram deals with more basic motivations. Imagine that two people want to tell the same story, but one is a writer and one is a musician. One will write a book while the other will write a song but both have the same origin point. So let’s look at each type and how that form of information processing would appear when directed by the primary survival motivation of Type Eight: Extroverted Sensation Types (ESTP and ESFP) Extroverted Sensation is associated with a strong connection to the “present moment” and places an emphasis on practicality in life. The first factor makes a Type Eight ESxP probably one of the more physically imposing type combinations. The second means that ESxP Eights are usually very decisive, and in some cases they can be confused with ESxJs. Extroverted Intuition Types (ENTP and ENFP) Extroverted Intuition is essentially the opposite of Extroverted Sensing: instead of focusing on present information, Extroverted Intuition brainstorms a myriad number of possibilities that may or may not be true. Extroverted Intuition types tend to be quick on their feet – mentally speaking – and Type Eight ENxPs rely on that ability for survival. Much of an ENxP Eight’s mental energy, therefore, is devoted to maintaining that competitive edge. Compare and contrast: ESxP – Boxing – American fighting sport that is generally won through overwhelming force and agility. ENxP – Akidio – Japanese martial art in which practitioners manipulate the force of their opponent’s attack and turn it against the opponent. Extroverted Thinking Types (ENTJ, ESTJ) Extroverted Thinking breaks a process down into its logical components. ExTJ Eights use that ability to break down a situation to assert control over others. They are the most likely to employ a “divide and conquer” type attack. Contrast ExTJ and ENxP. The first group wants to break down the enemy and consume it piece by piece; the latter wants to overtake the enemy by outperforming it. Extroverted Feeling Types (ENFJ, ESFJ) Extroverted Feeling refers to an awareness of the emotions or hidden beliefs of another, but does not necessarily imply that an Fe-dominant person must bend to those emotions. This means that Extroverted Feeling types often have a unique insight into the intentions of others. ExFJ Eights are particularly adept at finding “weak spots” in other people’s emotional armor. Introverted Sensation Types (ISTJ, ISFJ) Introverted Sensation types tend to use their experience to guide them; Si dominant Type Eights may be overly focused on setting out rules and holding people to them. Introverted Intuition Types (INTJ, INFJ) Ni-Dominant types tend to have brilliant insights into “what’s going on”, although they do so in different ways. INTJ Eights rely on their innate ability to determine what’s “out of order” and respond accordingly. INTJ Eights tend to be planners. Contrast this with their opposite, ESTP: an ESTP is likely to jump right into the fight, while an INTJ will observe and plan ahead. INFJ Eights, as they couple their Ni with Fe, have a startling intuition into other people and will use it to their advantage in a conflict. This is the type that probably finds it the easiest to navigate difficult social groups. Introverted Thinking Types (INTP, ISTP) Ti dominant types enhance their survival value by spotting inconsistencies in the behaviors of others and acting on them Contrast this with INTP/ISTP Type Five – instead of planning, they are more likely to just act. Introverted Feeling Types (INFP, ISFP) Fi dominant Eights tend to act instinctively and can develop an arrogant attitude in the pursuit of their goals. They may see themselves as so fundamentally correct that understanding the position of others isn’t useful. Contrary to popular belief, Fi plus Enneagram Eight does not make a touchy-feely Enneagram Eight. X. Paths to Security Type One - “I will be secure if I'm perfect.” Type Two - “I will be secure if I'm loved, appreciated or respected.” Type Three - “I will be secure if I am successful.” Type Four - “I will be secure if I am unique.” Type Five - “I will be secure if I withdraw from harm.” Type Six - “I will be secure if I am always aware of danger.” Type Seven - “I will be secure if I can plan for the future.” Type Eight - “I will be secure if I can control the world around me.” Type Nine - “I will be secure if I have peace.” XI. Freudian Association From my article, “The Freudian Theory of Enneagram” Type 8: Id Power Focused. Basic Fear: To be harmed or controlled by others. Basic Desire: To be in control of their own life. Agency: Id. A Type 8 individual has a well-developed id, which motivates them to be independent and resourceful. A Type 8 knows what they want - and they know that the most direct path is the quickest way to get it. For that reason, Type 8s are straightforward, assertive, and direct. The id tends to push to get to what it wants, so it won't back down when confronted with resistance. In fact, resistance only makes the Type 8 amp up the aggression; they are going to get what they want. The vice of Type 8 is often called "lust", and that makes sense. They want what they want, and they want lots of it. This is why conflict energizes an 8: it satisfies their id desires. In fact, some 8s may pursue conflict simply because it's so satisfying to the id. Contrast this with counterphobic 6: a cp6 is aggressive to deal with fear, an 8 may be aggressive because the aggression itself is satisfying. However, the id has a side to it that's more playful, and this comes out with the 8 in private. The 8 ideal is magnamity; the ability to use their power in an equitable and just way. This tends to develop as an 8 grows older. To Encourage Integration: Understand that there's a higher power in not using your power at all. The ultimate test of power is whether you can control yourself or not. To Avoid Disintegration: Use your energy in a just way. Not everything is deserving of aggressive confrontation. Understand that not everyone sees conflict the way that you do. Type 8 Wings: Type 8 with a 7 Wing (Id-Id): The id qualities of 8 and 7 stack in the 8w7. Because of the enthusiast 7 wing, they 8w7 is often very adventurous and intense. 8w7 is also the most likely type to seek conflict for the sake of conflict alone. 8w7s are often unaware of their own strength and may push much more than is necessary to get what they want. Type 8 with a 9 Wing (Id-Ego): The ego element of Type 9 makes the 8w9 more aware of their impulses. An 8w9 is less likely to underestimate their power, like an 8w7. This awareness gives the 8w9 better impulse control than 8w7, so the 8w9 is less likely to strike out at others without being provoked first. They are much more likely to draw a line in the sand and dare you to cross it. However, 8w9s run the risk of bottling up their aggression and having it explode at inopportune moments. “The only journey is the journey within.” - Rainer Maria Rilke

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Enneagram Type SEVEN: The Enthusiast

(Also known as “The Epicure”)

by Timeless (source: Personality Cafe)

I. Introduction to the Enneagram of Personality

The Enneagram of Personality is a personality classification system comprised of nine types. Each one of these nine types represents a distinct set of motivations, fears, desires and virtues. This article (and the other articles in this series) are designed to present each of the nine types in an understandable and comprehensive way. Many of you are no doubt familiar with the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, as it is the most popular personality instrument discussed on PersonalityCafe. The Enneagram is a fantastic compliment to the MBTI test because the Enneagram deals with core motivations, while MBTI deals with information processing. When taken together, MBTI and Enneagram can provide an accurate description of an individual's personality.

These articles are intended to describe each Enneagram type from the ground up, starting with the most fundamental motivations of that type and moving up to how those motivations are expressed in the real world. II. Quick Facts about Type Seven These facts will be described throughout the article. Holy Idea: Planning Vice: Gluttony Virtue: Sobriety Enneagram Triad: Head (Associated Emotion: Fear) Hornevian Triad: Aggressive Harmonic Triad: Positive Outlook Basic Drive: Pleasure versus Pain Basic Fear: Stagnation (Boredom) Basic Desire: Experiencing Life Freudian Association: Id (Pleasure vs. Pain Drive) III. Type Seven Description A basic principle of the Enneagram is that there are various ways of perceiving the same objective reality, and these are called the “Holy Ideas.” Holy Ideas are different ways of perceiving the same reality. For example, a person might read a book and pay close attention to the intricate plot. Another person may be more interested in the character development. They are both reading the same book, but they have different interest areas. For Type Seven, the Holy Idea is “Holy Planning”, sometimes called “Holy Wisdom.” Holy Planning represents the spiritual idea that everyone is on a holy path with all the serenity described by Zen Buddhist masters. A Type Seven is naturally sensitive to this idea at a young age, but the corrupting force of material life has corrupted the idea. After all, the world doesn't work according to plan. Even the best-laid plans are subject to complete failure, and this becomes obvious at an early age. Thanks to this corruption, the Seven may feel that there is no “Holy Plan” for them at all, and so, they want to escape. They distract themselves through the vice of gluttony. Gluttony also has a particular meaning. Gluttony (as opposed to Lust, the vice of Eight) is the desire to sample every bit of life, even if it’s not necessary. Lust wants to ever-expand to acquire more and more resources, while gluttony wants to make sure that no interesting flavor goes untasted. This means that the thoughts of a Type Seven are often scattered, and they may have a hard time focusing. From a psychological perspective, the Type Seven identifies with the Id, a subconscious part of the personality famously described by Sigmund Freud. The Id contains the “pleasure vs. pain” drive, which is the primal desire to avoid pain and seek pleasure; in essence, pain is what is to be feared. This is why Type Seven is within the Head triad, as the Head triad is driven by fear, and the fundamental fear of Type Seven is stagnation. Some theorists call it Boredom, but I think Stagnation is more accurate. The Type Seven is looking for fulfillment in the active pursuit of new experiences, so if those new experiences stop, then they run out of spiritual and mental fuel. Additionally, Type Seven activities tend to be mentally stimulating and oftentimes the anticipation of the event is the best part for a Type Seven. Type Sevens are most satisfied when they know that there are great things not just in the present, but also on the horizon. The virtue of Type Seven is sobriety, which represents having a clear head and understanding that fulfillment ultimately comes from within and nowhere else. Sobriety focuses the scattered thoughts of a Seven. Type Seven is sometimes called an addictive personality. They have a tendency to become addicted to some activity, whether it be reading, watching TV, playing games, or even drinking, as it helps them occupy their thoughts and distract them. They also are incredibly fun to be around and Sevens are often accustomed to being the life of the party. Mentally, they are quick and creative. Although they are easily distracted, they tend to be knowledgeable because they have a voracious appetite for new experiences, which naturally leads them to collect information on all sorts of topics. This may generate a large amount of energy, though, which has to be expended somehow: either through some new activity, a debate, or exercise, or anything else that can hold the Seven's attention. Sevens are usually positive people, always thinking that things will “work out.” They also usually want to get along and have fun with others; you can think of them as naturally playful. All these personality traits, taken together, mean that the Type Seven is usually an engaging personality because they want to sample all life has to offer. Unlike the stereotypes, they aren’t unrepentant cheaters or hedonists, they simply have a wide array of interests and an unusual capability to pick themselves up and move on after something traumatic.

IV. Developmental Progression of Type Seven Early in life, the Type Seven is sensitive to the concept of the “Holy Plan.” This is not necessarily a religious concept, but rather that people, as spiritual beings, are on a Holy Path of serenity, tranquility, and so forth. The material world (life) perverts this ideal into the delusion that the Holy Path is corrupted and there is no inner peace to be found. This creates the fixation on sampling everything in life, hoping to find a substitute for inner tranquility. The Seven relies on gluttony to give the illusion that they are satisfied in the world around them. The Seven’s virtue, sobriety leads them to their growth point of Five. V. Wings Enneagram theorists quickly discovered that each Enneagram type can have traits of the types around it. This is called “wing theory”, and while some theorists dispute the finer points of it, it's generally agreed that each type has a connection to the types around it and one of these connections will be dominant. For example, Type Two is surrounded by Types One and Three. Someone could therefore be a Two with a One Wing (Two as their main type with some Type One traits), or a Two with a Three Wing (Two as their main type with some Type Three traits.) The notation for this is 2w1 and 2w3, respectively. It is generally held that one wing is more dominant than the other; while you may have traits of both wings, one is more pronounced. Some believe that you can have balanced (equal) wings, but this Enneagram type description operates under the “dominant wing” theory, which is the most prevalent in the Enneagram community. Type Seven shares wings with Type Six and Type Eight. Type Seven with a Six Wing: Type Seven is associated with the Id, the seat of unconscious desires. Type Six is associated with the Superego, which internalizes moral and social structures. The presence of a Six wing tempers the Type Seven, and makes them more considerate of others. Type Seven with a Six Wing, therefore, tends to be more social and tends to avoid conflict wherever possible. They may end up hiding their dislike for someone in order to preserve to peace. Sevens with a Six Wing are usually personable, likeable, and fun to have around. Type Seven with an Eight Wing: Type Eight, on the other hand, is an Id type like Seven. The Eight wing adds in a bit of an ego and plenty of assertiveness to Type Seven. Type Seven with an Eight Wing has no problem with pushing at the boundaries of others, and unlike the Seven with a Six Wing, they are more likely to confront people directly. Sevens with an Eight wing tend to be thrill-seekers and are always looking for the best out of life. 7w8s are very vital people. 7w8s may also push other people's buttons in order to push others away, as the Eight wing is concerned with maintaining personal boundaries. Compare this to 8w7: 8w7 will attack others to maintain boundaries, while 7w8 will roughhouse with others to maintain boundaries. This aggressiveness is more playful than 8w7, although it can still be quite assertive. VI. Growth and Stress Arrows One theme in the study of the Enneagram is interconnectivity. Each type is distinct, but it does not stand alone. We discussed Wings earlier, which shows how a type can have traits of the types next to it. Another example of interconnectivity are stress and growth arrows. When an individual is in a state of stress or growth, they can take on traits of other types. There is some disagreement within the Enneagram community as to what precipitates a stress or growth condition, but I believe that the most logical interpretation of this is that a type becomes stressed when they succumb to their vice, while a type grows when they are following their virtue. Following a vice is a natural response, as it is the easy way out. Virtues are risky because they cause a person to confront their “dark sides” or fears and may result in a radical reassessment of one's thoughts and actions. Nevertheless, the Enneagram is a system of personal growth and the stress/growth arrow dynamic reflects that, as it embodies the concept that transcendence is hard work, and it's always darkest before the dawn. This is also in line with the overarching theme that the Nine types are basically just different means of perceiving reality, and no type is more correct than any other. Growth Arrow to Type Five: The Seven virtue of sobriety leads them to their growth point of Five. When a Type Seven begins to scale back their desire to sample everything in life, they can become more observational and appreciative of the world around them, like a Five. They generally would begin to take life at a slower pace and become very deliberate about what they get themselves involved in, like a Five would. Stress Arrow to Type One: The Seven vice of gluttony leads them to their stress point of One. Deep down, a Type Seven individual understands that serenity is going to come from within and not through gluttony. When gluttony starts to take a wrong turn, the Superego takes over and begins to chastise the Type Seven for their behavior. As a result, a stressed Type Seven may resemble a Type One in that they can become overcritical and perfectionist. This allows the Type Seven to review their actions, cut away the behaviors that brought them to this stress state, and then recover again. VII. Type Seven Variants Self-Preservation Sevens like to sample the world around them, but they do so cautiously, and tend to involve themselves in things that have survival value. They may be a more serious Seven than other types, and may actually appear to be very Five-like. However, they hop between interests like a Seven does. More likely to be introverted than extroverted, although this is not a rule. They place a special emphasis on activities that emphasize their physical security and health. Social Sevens direct their energy toward the connections within their social group, meaning that they can easily hop from one group of friends to the next. Many of their interests are oriented around interaction with others. Tends to be extroverted, tends to be Seven with a Six Wing, but this is not set in stone. Sexual Sevens are thrill-seekers and there is probably a strong correlation between Seven with an Eight Wing and a sexual variant stacking. Tends to be extroverted, tends to be Seven with an Eight wing. VIII. Comparison within Triads

Within the Head/Body/Image Triads: Head: These types are primarily concerned with their own thoughts. Image: These types take action when it comes to their image, which they equate with reality. Body: These types focus on the border between themselves and the world around them. Within the body triad… (Compared to Eight) Sevens are more likely to ignore a problem and simply “not care” while Eights want to confront it head on. (Compared to Nine) Sevens are more energetic than Nines. (Compared to One) Sevens lack the perfectionist and critical nature of a One. Sevens also tend to be more spontaneous than a One. Ones can be uptight, and Sevens are anything but. Within the image triad… (Compared to Two) Sevens tend to be more independent than Type Twos. Type Twos want to be liked, but Sevens may relish the idea of not being liked. (Compared to Three) Sevens tend to act without regard to their image, unlike a Type Three. (Compared to Four) Sevens do not see themselves as fundamentally disconnected like a Type Four. Type Fours are fundamentally disconnected from others while Type Sevens are fundamentally disconnected from themselves. Within the head triad… (Compared to Five) Sevens tend to be less cautious than Fives. They also tend to think in a scattered way, compared to the Five’s orderly way of thinking. (Compared to Six) Sevens do not have the systemic anxiety of a Six. (Although 7w6 has elements of it.) Within the Hornevian triads: The Hornevian triads describe how each type copes with a situation. They were originally developed by psychologist Karen Horney. Aggressive: In this context, “aggressive” means “action-oriented.” It doesn't mean belligerence. Type Three – Takes action to gain success. Type Seven – Takes action to keep engaged in interesting activities. Type Eight - Takes action to secure more resources and to continue to consume. Withdrawn: Type Four – Withdraws to protect themselves from being absorbed into the crowd; to maintain their uniqueness. Type Five – Withdraws to defend themselves and to get a better/clearer view of the situation. Type Nine – Withdraws to maintain peace. Compliant: In this context, these types are compliant to their superegos. It doesn't mean that they are pushovers. Type One – Complies with the superego because they will feel corrupt if they don't. Type Two – Complies with the superego because they will feel useless if they don't. Type Six – Complies with the superego because they will feel insecure if they don't. Within the Harmonic triads: The Harmonic triads describe the primary problem-solving skill employed by each type. Positive Outlook: Type Two – Twos focus on their own goodness and virtue. Type Seven – Sevens adopt an “it doesn't affect me” mentality. Type Nine – Nines focus on the “silver lining” in a situation instead of negative aspects. Competency: Type One – Ones must be competent to maintain their set of ethics. Type Three – Threes must be competent to avoid challenges to their success. Type Five – Fives must be competent to survive in the “outer world.” Reactive: Type Four – Fours may take things very personally, which makes them very emotionally intense. Type Six – Sixes are observant of their world and react accordingly. Type Eight – Eights are quick to react to challenges and to assert their boundaries. IX. Enneagram and MBTI Interaction The Enneagram describes motivations, while the MBTI describes modes of information processing. It would stand to reason that MBTI is subordinate to Enneagram, as the Enneagram deals with more basic motivations. Imagine that two people want to tell the same story, but one is a writer and one is a musician. One will write a book while the other will write a song but both have the same origin point. So let’s look at each type and how that form of information processing would appear when directed by the primary “pleasure vs. pain” motivation of Type Seven. One note: Type Seven is often considered one of the most engaging, extroverted types. However, this does not mean that all Type Sevens must be Extroverts within the MBTI. Extroverted Sensation Types (ESTP and ESFP) Extroverted Sensation is associated with a strong connection to the “present moment” and places an emphasis on practicality in life. ESxP Sevens, therefore, pay special attention to concrete pursuits and they love having tangible, realistic goals. Extroverted Intuition Types (ENTP and ENFP) Extroverted Intuition is essentially the opposite of Extroverted Sensing: instead of focusing on present information, Extroverted Intuition brainstorms a myriad number of possibilities that may or may not be true. ENxP Sevens are mentally quick, bouncing from idea to idea, without spending a great deal of time assessing the practicality of it. They are probably the most active and energetic “brainstormers” out there. Extroverted Thinking Types (ENTJ, ESTJ) Extroverted Thinking breaks a process down into its logical components and checks it for logical consistency. Extroverted Thinking Sevens therefore get a mental thrill out of playing with ideas in a logical way. ExTJ Sevens may prefer more of a “consultant” role; popping in for a period of time to do things their way, and then moving on to their next venture. Extroverted Feeling Types (ENFJ, ESFJ) Extroverted Feeling refers to an awareness of the emotions or hidden beliefs of another, but does not necessarily imply that an Fe-dominant person must bend to those emotions. This means that Extroverted Feeling types often have a unique insight into the intentions of others. ExFJ Sevens find it very easy to interact with other people, and the vibrant nature of a Seven similarly endears others to them. Even if their instinctual variant is not Social, they likely have strong group support. Introverted Sensation Types (ISTJ, ISFJ) Introverted Sensation types tend to use their experience to guide them; Si dominant Type Sevens tend to be more introverted and contemplative than the typical Seven. They are less likely to take risks and more likely to tread on familiar ground, so a key priority is to find ways to relate new situations to old ones. So they can be very active on familiar ground, so to speak. Introverted Intuition Types (INTJ, INFJ) Ni-Dominant types tend to have brilliant insights into “what’s going on” thanks to the flexible and instinctual Introverted Intuition function. INxJ Sevens are similarly flexible, and use their understanding of systems to keep themselves constantly engaged. Introverted Thinking Types (INTP, ISTP) Introverted Thinking types (IxTP) emphasize the particular meanings of words and how each individual piece fits together within a concept. Introverted Thinking Type Seven is probably one of the rarest combinations, since IxTPs tend to be the most introverted of the MBTI types. Introverted Feeling Types (INFP, ISFP) Introverted Feeling types are concerned more about the essence of a particular subject than the gritty particulars. (This is the opposite for Introverted Thinking types.) As a result, an IxFP Seven may resemble an ExFP Seven and there may be significant confusion between the two types. X. Paths to Security Type One - “I will be secure if I'm perfect.” Type Two - “I will be secure if I'm loved, appreciated or respected.” Type Three - “I will be secure if I am successful.” Type Four - “I will be secure if I am unique.” Type Five - “I will be secure if I withdraw from harm.” Type Six - “I will be secure if I am always aware of danger.” Type Seven - “I will be secure if I can plan for the future.” Type Eight - “I will be secure if I can control the world around me.” Type Nine - “I will be secure if I have peace.” XI. Freudian Association From my article, “The Freudian Theory of Enneagram” Type 7: Id Gratification Focused. Basic Fear: To be deprived and to be in pain. Basic Desire: To have their needs and wants met. Agency: Id. The id is the home of the "avoid pain/seek pleasure" principle that seeks the instant gratification of desires and the immediate end to pain. A Type 7 individual focuses their libidinal energy on this principle, producing a dynamic and motivated personality. Type 7 individuals are truly powerhouses and are perhaps the most energetic type in the enneagram. This energy can make them quite aggressive, although in a less "in your face" way than Type 8. When a Type 7 is doing something they really love, it's like there's no stopping them. That's why Type 7 is often called "The Generalist"; they usually have a wide range of things they like, and they can be enthusiastic about all of them. Like 8 (another id type) they tend to overdo it when it comes to things they like. This is a classic function of the id. To Encourage Integration: Type 7 integrates to Type 5, an ego type. Once the id desires are consistently satisfied, they move some libidinal energy to the ego. As the Type 7 becomes secure and positive in their lives, they are likely to adopt the contemplative and inquisitive nature of the Type 5. To Avoid Disintegration: Type 7 disintegrates much like Type 8 and Type 3; all id types share the pattern of lashing out as they disintegrate. The id is not a rational agency and if it's not satisfied, it can end up self-destructing more easily than you expect. One way to avoid this is to not set unrealistic expectations for life; you don't want to make your goals unattainable. Type 7 Wings: Type 7 with a 6 Wing (Id-Superego): The superego elements of Type 6 make Type 7w6 more society-oriented than 7w8. A 7w6 has the characteristic 7 enthusiasm, but they are also aware of what others consider positive because of the superego 6 wing. 7w6s are more like entertainers, directing their energy toward socially exciting activities. The 7w6 is often the life of the party. Type 7 with an 8 Wing (Id-Id): 7w8 combines an id core type with an id wing and this creates a very assertive personality. They direct their incredible energy almost entirely on their id, making them extremely passionate. No type is likely to be adventurous like a 7w8. “The only journey is the journey within.” - Rainer Maria Rilke