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will always be grateful to dan and phil giving me proof over and over again that you can take as much time as you need to face what you fear most, still come out the other side and find countless ways to embrace peace and happiness
still kind of crazy to me that dan willingly called phil his soulmate despite not believing in souls and also before they confirmed their relationship
I was wondering why Phil giving Dan head pats in post-HL videos (especially when reassuring him) felt so familiar…🤔
and I realised… it’s because of Phil’s solo part during TIT — specifically when he talks about Dan expressing how he needed a mental health break and in turn how Phil was ‘of course very supportive’ towards Dan at this time. As Phil says ‘ok buddy’ here, he mimes basically the same head patting gesture as above… 🥹
It’s now so easy to assume… or just 🥰 imagine 🥰 back then (pre-interactive introverts?) a guilt-ridden Dan talking about needing his break from everything… only to be met with Phil in return not hesitating to be there for Dan, through of course comfort and support —but also through much needed reassuring head pats 🫂❤️🩹✨
watching phil go from being locked in while looking at the hunky dudes teehee haha to then being very clearly deep in thought watching two characters tackle with not being out so much so he eventually turns to dan and asks him 'how does that make you feel about us?' because obviously their experience together as being closeted public figures who were also dating is so connected to these characters and their journey and that sparking dan to not only acknowledge the sadder parts of that era of their life together but also say the words 'we had each other' and 'we did a lot of fun stuff together' actually broke me
“i like that you are curious and want to ask me questions and even in this 16 year situation-partnership you have still got things to talk about with me — that’s lovely”
I'm new to the phandom— what's your favourite bit of obscure Dan & Phil lore I probably wouldn't just stumble across?
hello!!! welcome!!!! i’ll be honest as soon as i read this i forgot everything Dan & Phil have ever done BUT one thing that's pretty obscure that always pops up in my brain is this lil-blink-and-you’ll-miss-it moments from two random 2016 Dan YouNow liveshows. Thank you to @247landoffandoms for bringing light to this all the way back then ♡ I'll just expand on it below for new phannies!
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If you didn't know, Dan used to do these very chatty and cosy liveshows on a site called YouNow every Tuesday for like. 4-5 years?. wild. and you can find the archive of them, along with Phil's, here! At the beginning of these YouNows, Dan would typically show us his laptop with his own stream playing which made a horrible loop of him saying something like ‘Welcome to the liveshow!’ until it was just Loud Noise. During his show on January 26th 2016, you could see there was a teeny tiny bear sticker on the (our pov) right corner above the keyboard:
Please excuse the horrendous quality - YouNow / Dan's webcam was not high quality lol. I doodled what it probs most likely looks like:
What’s funny is in past videos we’ve seen that Dan does not put stickers on his laptop x
but you know who does? :3
and who even has a tendency of sticking stuff to Dan / on to Dan's stuff…? :3c
Phil! so it’s not far fetched to assume he put that bear there on Dan's laptop (,,> ᴗ <,,)
OK. SO... Why is this interesting?
WELL, for extra significance/context, Dan has told us a few times now that 'Bear' was his family nickname and he's previously said bears are his favourite animal aaaand has said if he was an animal he would be a bear. There’s even been instances where Phil had referred to him as Bear in tweets in the early days of their relationship (; ᴗ ; ) also, of course... cat & bear save the world ♡ (ty to phistorian @ahappydnp for this and this post btw!).
While imagining Phil sticking this to Dan's laptop is already a cute scenario in itself — Phil could've sneakily stuck it there without Dan noticing straight away or, more likely, it was a quick but v cute moment they shared while sat on the sofa together much like in screenshots above (╥﹏╥) it's just so cute — what’s actually even more devastating was what happened 2 weeks later in Dan's February 9th liveshow. While putting his laptop towards the camera in the usual fashion, we can now see there’s a little heart sticker next to the bear sticker:
♡ (╥ᆺ╥ ) I don't know why this gets me so much. It's so tiny and, yeah, is like based on assumptions...but I just really doubt Dan would've put those stickers there himself and it's 99% more likely Phil did it. Just imagining the lil tiny scenario between the two of them in those two weeks brings me so much joy. Especially when you consider they were probably busy preparing for the US leg of TATINOF and spending a lot of time sat next to each other on the sofa or at their office desk. What's worse is I don't even know if/when he removed them because in his next liveshow you can't (i think) see that part of his laptop and the one after that he doesn't even do the endless loop of noise. It's just sweet to imagine them being there for a while and becoming a more familiar sight in Dan's POV while he used his laptop. It's one of the many little things that kept him connected to Phil.
There's so many more tiny things like this sprinkled throughout their 16 years together that I'm sure you can find. It's so funny looking back now how certain things were impossible for them to completely hide because their love was/is so loud (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) !!!
I hope that was obscure yet fun enough. I realise i just rambled about two stickers for a good while.... I highly recommend @bluebirdlester's post for new phannies if you'd like some direction exploring the world of D&P! I'm always happy to answer any questions or have a ramble too! Have a lovely rest of your day!
something very 💕💕💕 about how when dan is genuinely sincerely complimenting phil and hyping up something he did, phil kinda just responds with saying saying 🙂 ‘yeah’ or ‘alright!’ 😀 in a very Distinct Tone tone and small ‘haha!’ laugh …. VS when dan is like either bombarding him with silly sometimes flirty questions, teasing him, leaning in real close or just YELLINGGG at him and phil instead becomes an absolute MESSS!!!!! all he can do is be flustered and giggly…….. it’s just sooooo 💕💕💕💕💕
i find it v funny that during the new video + bonus vid dan sorta relies a lot on his ‘edgy’ and more ‘sarcastic’ persona when talking to these dudes like i don't think it’s a complete facade but he definitely… exaggerates … this side of himself more 🎶especiallyyy🎶 in situations he can’t control (see ‘i seem so cold and nasty despite actually being soft and cuddly’ from the bed video) to be honest, i don’t know if ‘edgy’ is the right word here…but do you get what I mean? essentially, dan is just at his core very CUTE but when he tries really hard not to be it somehow makes him cuter. and it’s sooo fun to observe phil 100% x100 understanding this about dan and having fun with it in the most endearing ways. Not only is it a bravado that’s probably v fun to challenge (heh) but it also makes me think about all the times phil has jokingly boasted about being so much fun to be around and dan always taking a moment to try and jokingly protest but then just basically rolling his eyes agreeing and being all like ‘I suppooose ♡ this guy ♡ he really got to me ♡ I guess ♡’ which somehow frustratingly (in the best way) enhances both their cuteness. Honestly phil is also very fascinating to observe in this video — he's so attentive and has this very specific type of confidence where he can say the weirdest or lol randomest thing but because there’s no hesitancy or performance around it, it just instantly charms people?? like a spell?? While also having this very giggly side where he can just laugh at the silliness of flirting as a social concept (the whole ‘do you wear ties often?’ comment) (+dan laughing so fucking loud at it). I feel like the moment Luke hesitated about what score to give phil before settling on 7 (when the highest was meant to be 5) just encompasses phil’s ability to not only be himself but thrive in it so much he can find his way into anyone’s heart. it’s truly no wonder phil can bring dan’s walls down. He’s so sure in himself and openly honest about it there's nothing for dan to like necessarily… perform to in response? he just gets to be himself and Phil loves all of him whole heartedly ♡ plus phil is like more than willing to give dan enough control in many aspects of their relationship and collaboration - because he knows that makes him feel safe, happy and comfortable! I can really believe dan subconsciously had moments where he realised he didn’t actually have to put on a mask when it came to phil, unlike how he tends to with other people!!! which sends me back to that part in their mukbang video filmed after ii where dan bluntly questions whether he has a personality and immediately phil is so confused because he’s never not experienced dan in his entirety. bros personality and all the sides of it are so obvious and present to phil because dan never had to or felt the need mask in front of him because phil made him feel so comfortable from day fucking one!!! …seriously tho… when dan is met with phil’s unabashed honesty and whimsy, why would he feel the need to ‘put on a face’ in response to it when instead he can just embrace it — embrace him — and by extension learn to embrace parts of himself that might be similar… even the parts of him that were previously scary to admit and accept. So much of their relationship, at least from what i’ve observed as a viewer for 16 years+, is based in this like this learnt vulnerableness, trust and safety and allowing whatever comes from that to change you and grow… it’s really very precious to notice inklings of all of that through their videos and while I 100% understand this new video may not have been everyone’s cuppa tea… I do love how it put into light how dan and phil both came to love each other, while also reaffirming how their ‘really are meant for each other’ in so many ways