(Urgent!) Um, hello, my crush/best friend called me a manipulative bitch, and it really hurt my feelings and its still really upsetting me. i am not sure what happened, but it took me by surprise, and i think i just lost him as a friend. after all i've done for him, i feel like he betrayed me. i trusted him and he broke that, and i don't think i can trust anyone anymore. this isnt the first time hes done this, and i feel like hes using my fears against me. maybe im paranoid? help (Karkat please)
CG: OKAY I UNDERSTAND YOUR DILEMMA BUT I ALSO THINK YOU NEED TO LOOK AT THE WAY YOU WORDED THE MESSAGE YOU JUST SENT ME.
CG: “AFTER ALL I’VE DONE FOR HIM,” AND TALKING ABOUT NOT TRUSTING ANYONE ANYMORE IS ACTUALLY A HUGE GUILT TRIP OR MANIPULATION TACTIC.
CG: I’M NOT SAYING YOU’RE DOING IT ON *PURPOSE* AND I REALLY FUCKING DON’T THINK YOU DESERVE TO BE CALLED A BITCH, BUT INTERNALIZED BEHAVIORS THAT CAN INVOLVE EMOTIONAL STRAIN OR MANIPULATION ARE SOMETHING YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECK OUT IN YOURSELF.
CG: YOUR FRIENDSHIP SHOULDN’T BE BASED ON HOW MUCH YOU’VE DONE FOR HIM. IT MIGHT BE HARD TO HEAR, BUT HE DOESN’T OWE YOU SHIT. HE MIGHT BE TRYING TO GET A RESPONSE BY USING YOUR FEAR OF LOSING HIM, OR HE MIGHT ACTUALLY NOT WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU ANYMORE.
CG: PEOPLE DON’T OWE OTHER PEOPLE THINGS LIKE FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIPS JUST BECAUSE THEY DO THINGS FOR EACH OTHER. SOMETIMES PEOPLE GROW APART AND IT’S FUCKING NORMAL, AND IF YOUR BEHAVIORS AREN’T COMPATIBLE ANYMORE, WELL, FUCK IT.
CG: I KNOW I MIGHT BE SOUNDING LIKE A MASSIVE DICK RIGHT NOW, BUT SOMETIMES YOU NEED A WAKE UP CALL TO START LOOKING AT THE WAY YOU AND OTHER PEOPLE ACT, AND INTERACT.














